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Want to Attract Wealth as Well as Love?

Posted on 04 June 2012 by Lui

There are always challenges to even “soul mate” quality relationships. One of them is regarding the subject of money. I hate to admit it, but of all the qualities on my “wish list” I created to attract my dear love, James, money wasn’t anywhere on that list! The reason? Because I had REAL blocks when it came to money. I ignored it. It was a “nuisance” and I considered it an annoying necessity.

So guess what? That is the ONE issue that James and I have disagreements about the most! I attracted a partner, who in every other aspect was EXACTLY what I asked for from the Universe. And what do we both have in common? Huge blocks when it comes to money. The money paradigm we both grew up in were very different, yet we had vibrationally similar “levels” of money management and manifestation.

Yuck.

It was AFTER we manifested each other, that we both decided to pursue the path of healing our negative money paradigms. Boy those are tough to kick! But recently I fell in love with (no, not another man) an EFT Tapping coach, Margaret Lynch, who spoke my language – the language of Energy Medicine and the Chakras!

If you’ve bought my book on manifesting your ideal love partner, then you already know how I used EFT to neutralize my negative blocks to manifesting love. Once I began studying with Margaret, I found a whole new area of blocks in my chakras that needed healing AND in doing so, it was greatly enriching my relationship with James!

Who knew that being abundant in one area does not necessarily translate directly into being abundant in another? But working on abundance in ALL areas greatly enriches the enjoyment factor in your life.

So that is why I’m writing to tell you about a special four-part video training (free) that Margaret is allowing me to share specifically with my readers. I’m sooooo excited! When I took her 7 Levels of Wealth Manifestation program, I cried, I laughed, I tapped my little heart out and loved every minute of it! It is making a HUGE difference in my life and in my relationship with James.

Here here’s the special link she gave me: http://www.1shoppingcart.com/app/?af=1415829&u=http://7levelsofwealthmanifestation.com/margaret1

Watch the video series and tap along. If you don’t totally resonate with it, that’s OK, but if you loved it like I did, you might want to continue studying with Margaret like I did.

I think the first video is June 4th, so sign up now!

Blessings,
Dr. Karen Kan

P.S. If you’ve EVER argued about money with your significant other, than you better register with this program….getting your own negative money vows “unblocked” can save years of argument and conflict with your future dream partner….and will likely help you attract someone who is more abundant!

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Will Using Visualization Make Him More Romantic?

Posted on 06 June 2010 by Dr. Karen

Dr. Karen,

I got my boyfriend through law of attraction, and had him exactly the way I wanted him to be, he is handsome, intelligent, smart, rich and responsible. But he is not that romantic and isn’t that enthusiastic towards our relationship and he takes it for granted.

So is it possible through the law of attraction to see these very new things in him that he has never done before to me? My question is – Is it possible to add some new behaviors in your partner just by visualizing it?

Tia

Dear Tia,

In my experience, visualizing what you want is just PART of the manifesting process. If you’ve read my Creating Your Fairytale Love Life eBook, you’ll remember that there are approximately seven steps to the manifesting process. What I’ll share here is complimentary to what I wrote in the book, so I won’t repeat what’s in the book.

It is more than possible through the Law of Attraction to see these “new” behaviors in your relationship. However, it is going to take some effort and discipline on your part to co-create this. This isn’t about him changing as much as it is about you changing. Really.

Visualization is a powerful tool if you can feel it as a “whole body” experience. Imagine ideal (and believable) situations where you are both enjoying the romance of the moment and how that feels in your body. Do the exercise daily. Your partner may notice a mysterious twinkle in your eye afterwards if you’re practicing this successfully. The power of visualizations depends on repetition AND being able to feel it in your body (not just thinking about it in your mind).

Visualizing is just one of many manifesting tools. A crucial step in harnessing the Law of Attraction is consistent ACTION. In other words, visualization without relevant action is not very useful. Here is what I recommend you do next.

Look really hard for behaviors in your partner that you enjoy and like and make sure you give him appreciation for them, each and every time. This means homework on your part. Make it a daily exercise for at least thirty days (so it becomes a habit) to look for things you appreciate about your partner and tell him about it.

Better yet, don’t just tell him your appreciation verbally. Tell him with your body. Melt your body into his, look into his eyes and glow with loving appreciation for those “little” things he does to show his love for you, even if you don’t consider them “romantic”.

Our partners are our mirrors. If you feel he’s been taking you for granted, you’re probably doing the same in his perception, even if it is unconsciously. Look for ways you have been taking him for granted and start correcting your behavior so that you start giving him the recognition YOU’D like to receive yourself.

Next exercise: start doing romantic things for yourself and for him. Bring out your “Goddess”. For example, get yourself a bouquet flowers and if he asks you why, just tell him you did it because it makes you feel feminine and romantic (only if that is true, of course). Take a bath by candlelight and ask him to join you. Start a tickle fight on the couch. Watch a romantic movie then “attack him” with loving kisses afterwards.

Take belly dancing classes and start “practicing” all over the house in your coin skirt, nudging him with your hips as you shimmy by. Offer a foot rub. Leave sticky notes in odd places around the house (like inside the bathroom cabinet) that say, “I love you!” or “I love your butt!” etc.

I want you to have fun with this. If any of these suggestions make you feel uncomfortable….GOOD! You have room to grow!

So let us know what happens!

If anyone reading this blog post has any other suggestions for Tia, please share them by posting a comment to this blog.

Dr. Karen Kan
www.lawofattractioninlove.com

P.S. Are you stuck at all? Do you think you could use some coaching? If you’re interested group tele-coaching, let me know now as I’m forming a coaching group soon. Click here for more information.

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