Tag Archive | "positive thinking"

Tags: , , , ,

Easy “telepathy” anyone can do

Posted on 24 January 2013 by Dr. Karen

  • Have you ever wished you could tell somebody something but you just didn’t have the nerve?
  • Have you ever wished there was an “easier” way to resolve conflict without actually have to talk to the person?
  • Have you ever wished that you could mend a relationship, but the other person won’t talk to you?
  • Have you ever wished you could magically get your way?

Well, if you answered YES to any of the questions above, you’ll want to join me on my radio show Monday January 28, 2013. On the show, I’m going to teach you the simplist, easiest way to do “telepathy” that I’ve ever discovered. Even school age children can learn to do this! You’ll want pen and paper to jot notes, but the technique isn’t hard at all. With the”telepathic” technique I’m going to teach you, I’ve been able to help clients and patients profoundly change their relationships.

In once case, a woman was going through a horrible divorce. Her husband was so angry, he was using his lawyers to do whatever they could to intimidate her. After one session where I showed her how to do the telepathy (we did it together too), she got what she wanted (the house) and he left her alone! In another case, a patient who was disabled could not afford to pay her rent. She wanted so badly to go back to work but could not. Her disability case was stalled for months and she was seething with resentment. Again, after one session of “telepathy”, within two weeks, she received her disability money. In both those cases, I used a shortcut form of telepathy and with the help of energy tools, like acupuncture, I was able to help the patient shift to the new vibration necessary to get what she wanted.

Here’s the good news. I’m going to show you the technique that does NOT require any other energy tools. I taught this to my partner James. Years ago, he has a terrible argument with a co-worker. He left feeling enraged. After 20 minutes of venting to me, I asked if he’d like to shift the situation or just keep venting. He paused and decided he’d rather feel better. So, I taught him this simple telepathy technique I’m going to be teaching you. The next day when he arrived at work, the co-worker with whom he had the argument, marched right up to him and apologized profusely for what she had said. Everyone at work was super nice to him that day. He was IMPRESSED! and so was I.

Can’t wait to share more. So Join me Monday January 28, 2013 at 12 noon Eastern. Here are the details:

Dr. Karen Kan

Comments (0)

Tags: ,

I love the newsletter I got today about “thinking positive”

Posted on 13 January 2010 by Dr. Karen

The message below is now one of my new favorites from bestselling author and spiritual teacher, Neale Donald Walsch. Why? Because it really hits me where it hurt (or used to hurt).

I was the BEST at “thinking positive”, but also ignoring the “elephant sitting in the middle of the livingroom”. His message below is for all of you who are great at “thinking positive” while your bank account, health and relationships are deteriorating and you’re not exactly tackling the “problems” head-on.

“On this day of your life, Karen, I believe God wants you to know…
…….that positive thinking does not mean turning into an ostrich.

Burying your head in the sand in the name of “staying positive” is not a good strategy. Wearing blinders rather than looking rightat what’s going on right now is not the way to create your vision for tomorrow.

Sculptors have to look at the block and begin cutting parts of it away before their vision emerges in the marble. Look directly at the block if you want to create the art.”

Love, Your Friend….

If you’ve enjoyed this, consider reading his latest book, When Everything Changes, Change Everything available at the Law of Attraction in Love  Bookstore.

Dr. Karen Kan

P.S. Would love your comments on how this message struck you! Have you ever been an ostrich?

Comments (0)

Tags: , , , ,

Overcoming Negativity – Dr. Judith Orloff

Posted on 28 February 2009 by Dr. Karen

 Judith Orloff MD, bestselling author and UCLA psychiatrist, invites you on a

remarkable journey where you can embrace more happiness and mastery over

negativity than you may have ever known. Our world is in the midst of a

meltdown. She describes how to stay intuitively and spiritually centered in our


Dr. Orloff celebrates the exciting launch of her new book: “Emotional Freedom:

Liberate Yourself from Negative Emotions and Transform Your Life” (Harmony).

She is treating you to an incredible book launch one time offer with special

gifts from Judith and others such as Dr. Christiane Northrup, Dr. Bruce Lipton,

Dr. Michael Beckwith and more!

Go here right now and get the details to purchase book and for your special



In “Emotional Freedom” Dr. Orloff states:

“I’m presenting the unique process I use with patients to view emotions as a

path to spiritual and intuitive awakening (not EFT). I synthesize traditional

medicine with energy medicine to offer you new tools to master emotions and

become heroes in your own life. Inner peace leads to outer peace in the world.”

Publisher’s Weekly’s review of “Emotional Freedom” says this:

“[Dr. Orloff] regards emotions as a training ground for the soul, and views

“every victory over fear, anxiety, and resentment as a way to develop your

spiritual muscles.””

“Emotional Freedom” has rave reviews from Deepak Chopra, Dr. Candace Pert,

Christiane Northrup MD, Caroline Myss, Dean Ornish MD, and Mary Oliver,

Pulitzer Prize winning poet.  They call it “Spectacular,” “A must-read,” “A

heartfelt, accessible guide,” and “Resolutely compassionate.”

In the book, you will discover:

* Four questions to transform fear with courage

* What is your emotional type?

* How to stop absorbing the emotions of others

* How to combat emotional vampires with compassion

* The spiritual meaning of depression and hope

Purchase book and claim gifts at:


If you’d like to liberate yourself from negative emotions, and compassionately

own the moment in all situations instead of simply being reactive…

Immediately go here for:



Dr. Karen

P.S.  Nelson Mandela said:  “As we are liberated from our own fear, our

presence automatically liberates others.”  Help liberate others and share this

announcement with them. 

For more inspiration and information visit http://www.drjudithorloff.com

Comments (0)

Tags: , , , , ,

Dear Dr. Karen: What Pictures Do I Use To Attract Love?

Posted on 11 November 2008 by Dr. Karen

Hello Dr. Karen,

My question is: If I want to find love, besides thinking positively, what other things can also help me? If I put pictures on my wall, what kind of pictures would they be?

Mary (not her real name)

Dear Mary,

Positive thinking is helpful, but it isn’t the way you harness the law of attraction (please see my post on the Law of Attraction is not positive thinking). What you want to do with your visualizations, if that is a tool that resonates with you, is to choose pictures that give you an emotional reaction. In other words, choose photos and pictures that inspire you when you look at them.

It isn’t the positive thought that brings about the wanted outcome or intention. It is the positive feeling that stems from the positive thought. All the positive thinking in the world won’t do anyone any good if there isn’t an associated feeling of inspiration, passion, joy and fulfillment. See the difference?

I have a relative that tells me that she always thinks positively and is fairly good at reframing negative situations, yet whenever she goes to the bank, she complains constantly that the workers at the bank are incompetent and always make mistakes. Guess what? She’s right! They DO always make mistakes…around HER. Even though she considers herself a positive thinker, she hasn’t become conscious of her repetitive negative programming.

Creating a visual reminder of your dream come true may help to rewire some of your programming. A dream board or a vision board can be created by cutting out photos from magazines and pasting them to a poster board. I have friends who have such a big dream board, it fills up an entire wall!

I use a cut-and-paste type vision board, but I also use a dynamic vision board – one that associates inspiring music and affirmations with each photo. You can create your own at www.amazingvisionboards.com. I have one for career, one for health, one for wealth etc.

The purpose of the visual reminder is for you to get into the vibration (emotionally) of already having received your intention (your dream partner). The more you can stay in this vibration of already having received, the faster your dream partner will come to you.

Also, imagine that everything that happens to you from this day forth is meant to be…and will lead you to the dream partner you desire. Some situations may come up that you may consider negative, and that’s where the “positive” attitude can come in – reframe the so-called negative situation into a positive one,  and understand that everything happens for a reason and that reason is there to serve you.

The more you can have overall peace and fulfillment in your life, the happier your life will be with or without a partner…and the happier you are, the more you’ll find very many wonderful potential partners to share your life with!


Dr. Karen Kan

Comments (0)

Tags: , , , , , , ,

Law of Attraction is NOT Positive Thinking!

Posted on 04 May 2008 by Dr. Karen

After watching The Secret, many people mistakenly believed that the message was to “think positive”. I am in disagreement, however. I’ve done “thinking positive” for decades of my life but harnessing the law of attraction to manifest your desired reality is WAY BEYOND thinking positive. It is closer to “positive being”. But even that statement is inaccurate. You don’t just think positive. You CREATE your reality from scratch! So it isn’t about being positive about finding your dream partner, but about CREATING that person from scratch!

I was just listening to the Divine Matrix audio book by Gregg Braden and he talks about how some of his friends who were diagnosed with terminal cancer did not understand how to (at least in his perception) to manifest the healing they were desiring. He said that the difference between their belief that their illness will be healed (positive thinking or belief) vs. being healed is that in the former scenario, they were acting from a place of expectation and attachment to the healing taking place when they wanted it to (and noticing that it hadn’t happened yet) as opposed to living from the place of ALREADY HAVING BEEN HEALED.

What does that mean – ‘living from the place of already having been healed”? It means living in the EMOTIONAL state of already having what you’ve asked for. Braden tells us that it is our emotional state that determines the vibration of our “particles” (molecules we’re made up of) – the longer we stay in the EMOTIONAL state of having already received, the easier it is to manifest what we desire. So what emotional state are you in most of the time?

Furthermore, the state of ATTACHMENT to where, when and how our reality SHOULD manifest actually prevents us from achieving or manifesting our intentions. When we can practice embodying our NEW reality (Chapter 3 in Creating Your Fairytale Love Life eBook) with every molecule of our being, we begin to attract all those things we want – the attractant being the vibration of love and compassion.

Curiously, once we start mastering our vibration (as compassion, as the Tibetan monks would teach us to) and our ability to manifest becomes effortless, we actually become more and more unattached to achieve a certain end-point or goal! It doesn’t really matter to us anymore. In other words, we become enamoured with “what is”.

I had an amazing experience last week at my Train the Trainer event. The intention (wish) I set was easily manifested and THEN SOME! See what happened is this: I set an intention to be teaching my law of attraction in love material on the stage of one of my guru teachers by the end of this year. It was a lofty intention and I had no idea how I was going to accomplish it. But here’s the trick. I took it one day at a time and followed through on the next small step. After completing that, I followed through on the next small step after that, etc.

And I do this with as much “unattachment” as possible. I know. It isn’t easy to be unattached. But I’m getting better at “letting go” of having to control the outcome of everything. My perception is that with every intention I set and work towards, the faster my manifesting seems to happen. Miraculous really, according to those close to me. And that puts be easily in a state of gratitude and appreciation – great vibrations to attract more of the same.

I want the same for you. My business coach, Keith Leon, author of Who Do You Think You Are? has been pivotal for me, guiding me towards the next step. The “next step” takes work, of course, and it means expanding my comfort zone and growing myself into the new reality I am creating. I highly recommend that you get your own coach. It doesn’t have to be me. I’m a relationship coach and I love doing it, but find yourself someone who you resonate with and get some support. It makes a huge difference!


Dr. Karen Kan

Comments (0)

Join Dr. Karen's Community

Law of Attraction in Love on Facebook