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How to Clear Out the Obstacles That Are Blocking the Possibility of New Love

Posted on 06 August 2014 by Dr. Karen

Have You Found Yourself Thinking These False Beliefs?

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Let’s be real. Sometimes love can let us down. Past break-ups and relationships can be frustrating, disappointing and downright heartbreaking  (and those romantic movies don’t make it any easier!)



Maybe you are at the point that you find yourself saying these types of things:

“I’m worried that my chance at real, passionate Soulmate love passed me by years ago”
“I’m too old, too overweight, or too broken to be able to find my Soulmate”
“I”m so set in my “single” ways that I don’t even have room in my life for a full-time partner”
“All the “good ones” are taken!”

Well, the good news is… none of those are true.. not even a little bit!

All it takes is a change of mindset to start getting rid of those beliefs that just aren’t serving you or your relationships.

You may have heard of best-selling author Arielle Ford before. She’s been named the Soulmate Expert, and she sent me this fantastic resource that I knew you would find of value.


Arielle is offering a FREE Online Event called “The 3 Keys to Manifesting True Love.” 

In this love-changing seminar, you’ll discover . . 

  • How to clear out the obstacles, such as the memory of past lovers and heartache, that are energetically pushing away any possibility of a soulmate
  • How to experience the love and connection you crave even before you meet your soulmate, which will attract the right person to you almost magically
  • How to forgive yourself for mistakes you’ve made in the past and open your heart to the kind of relationship that will truly make you happy


What do you have to lose besides those -not so great- beliefs?

It’s a totally free event, and even if you miss it, you can catch the recording later.

Just sign up for her free seminar HERE.

I have a good feeling that you will really like what she has to share with you, and who knows what you can discover about yourself and your future Soulmate!


Dr. Karen Kan



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Can what you eat interfere with your Manifesting?

Posted on 04 September 2013 by Dr. Karen

TOMORROW: What You Didn’t Know About The Law of Attraction

It’s all about energy. Allowing your energy to drain away because you spend too much time on your computer, or eat low-energy foods affects your ability to harness the Law of Attraction.

Less energy= Less attractiveness.

It’s these small, yet essential details that are often overlooked when talking about The Law of Attraction.

That’s why I am offering a Learning The Law of Attraction course tomorrow to cover the left out pieces of the puzzle that you may have been missing.

Tomorrow’s Class we will be focusing on Harnessing The Law of Attraction including:

  1. The simple 5 minute exercise to harness the law of attraction
  2. the first 3 crucial steps you have to take before manifesting anything
  3. how to know if your manifestation is really working

I encourage you to join me for this fun and exciting class!


The register for the class go to: http://www.learnitlive.com/karenkan

(If this is your first time visiting, you can sign in by creating a new username and password or sign in via facebook)

The class will be recorded, so if you can’t make it live, you can listen to it as much as you’d like afterwards!

See you tomorrow!

Dr. Karen Kan



This is the 2nd of 6 classes that I am offering as part of my Fast Track Your Healing Program, so be sure to check out my other class offerings at: http://www.learnitlive.com/karenkan

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Katherine’s Love Story

Posted on 21 August 2013 by Dr. Karen

Katherine Woodward Thomas’ Story of Calling In The One

At the age of 41, Katherine created a process to “call in” a new kind of conscious, committed loving relationship, and within a few short months she was married, and gave birth to her daughter Alexandria the following year.

Soon, word of her miraculous process began to spread around the country, and before long, she was receiving hundreds of requests to share how she did it.

Now she strives to share with everyone her powerful unique technique of calling in your “one.”

On Monday, August 26th, Katherine Woodward Thomas will be sharing her story and her secrets behind her process in a complimentary seminar.

Gain access to Katherine Woodward Thomas’s Free Seminar:  Calling In The One


Spiritual luminaries, including Marianne Williamson, Deepak Chopra, and Neale Donald Walsch all rave about Katherine and the Calling in “The One” approach.

I really love Katherine’s work and I hope to see you at the seminar!

Dr. Karen

P.S. Make sure you register HERE even if you can’t attend live, so Katherine can send you the recording afterwards.

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Check Out My Limited Time Free Classes.. Emotion Code, Law of Attraction & More..

Posted on 01 August 2013 by Dr. Karen

Your Introduction to Body Code, Law of Attraction, Emotion Code & More

As a celebration of my newly released hardcover and paperback version of my book: Guide to Healing Chronic Pain- A Holistic Approach, I am offering 100 free tickets to my readers to the first 4 classes of  Fast Track Your Healing Program.

  • Class 1: How to Harness the Law of Attraction Intro Class – in this webinar you’ll learn:
    • The first 3 crucial steps in manifesting your heart’s desires into reality
    • The exercises I teach so you can practice your “manifesting muscles”. This class is experiential, so bring a journal and pen!
  • Class 2: How to do muscle testing – in this webinar you’ll learn
    • How to do traditional muscle testing
    • Several different methods on how to do self-muscle testing
    • Two different ways using muscle testing to see if you’re allergic or intolerant of a food
  • Class 3: How to do the Emotion Code – in this webinar you’ll learn
    • How trapped emotions hamper the immune system and can cause pain and disease
    • How you can use muscle testing to determine if you have trapped emotions
    • How I do the Emotion Code “long distance” with a patient.  I’ll need volunteers for this so if you’re live on the call and have a problem, you’ll get your chance to get some “f*ree” treatment
  • Class 4: Introduction to the Body Code – in this webinar you’ll learn:
    • How we can determine the underlying imbalances causing your pain or symptoms using the Body Code mind maps and muscle testing
    • How I do the Body Code “long distance” with a patient.  I’ll need volunteers for this so if you’re live on the call and have a health challenge, you’ll get your chance to get some “f*ree” treatment.


How to Qualify for your F*ree Ticket:  It’s easy!

Step 1: Buy a hardcover or paperback copy of my book Guide to Healing Chronic Pain – A Holistic Approach via Amazon, Barnes and Noble, or through your local bookstore (available worldwide!).

Step 2: If you haven’t done so already, REVIEW my book on Amazon or Barnes & Noble and tell me what parts of the book resonated with you the most (or why you liked it).

Step 3: Send an email to jenniferburns@karenkan.com with your store receipt and a link to your testimonial or go to www.karenkan.com/fasttrack and submit your information online.


That’s it! The first 100 people qualify.

The deadline to submit your information is Saturday August 17th (which co-incidentally is the date I’m holding a Book Launch party at home).


Once you’ve submitted your information, my assistant Jennifer will put you in my “secret” mailing list so that you will receive the invites for all the free classes.  Each webinar will be recorded and available for free viewing for a period of one week following the class.  Classes start on Monday August 26th!

This is going to be so much fun!  All you’ll need is an internet connection to view and listen to the webinar.  I’m really looking forward to connecting with you “live” online!!


Dr. Karen

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How Your Lower Chakra Vows Keep You From Manifesting Your Dreams

Posted on 26 June 2013 by Dr. Karen

Signs Your Lower Chakra Vows Are  Self-Sabotaging

One of the most common blind spots in personal development and many spiritual practices is digging deep into the limiting vows of our 3 lower chakras.

But how do you even know if a lower chakra is keeping you in limitation, or is secretly in the driver’s seat of your love life?

My personal mentor and tapping expert Margaret Lynch has just released a fantastic video that covers just that:

Shatter Your Glass Ceiling Video

Margaret reveals the signs that our lower chakras are running the show and where exactly  you hold the magnetic creative power to manifest anything your desire – including a phenomenal relationship!


I highly recommend checking out this video, I know from personal experience how fantastic Margaret’s work is!

 Shatter Your Glass Ceiling Video


Dr. Karen Kan

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An Indian priest predicted my love life

Posted on 30 May 2010 by Dr. Karen

Dear Dr. Karen,

An Indian priest told me I would never have a long lasting relationship with a man.  I’m tired of having my heart broken. I’m just wondering; what is the purpose of trying when you know it won’t last?


Dear Mona,

Having your heart broken is indeed tiring if it is something that happens over and over again, and you do not feel you have grown or benefited from the experience. On the other hand, the “most joyful” people on this earth are willing to “try” over and over again and possibly get their hearts broken. Why? Because it is in the journey that they learn the most amazing things about themselves and others.

So the direct answer to your question of “What is the purpose of trying when you know it won’t last?” would be:

“because I learn something new and wonderful about myself and others each time I try…and I become closer to my true Self”

Mona, even though this is the “answer” to your question, we’ll have to go deeper because the actual question you are asking isn’t what you truly want to know, is it?

Here are some other questions for you to ask yourself:

1.  If the Indian priest, whom I trust, tells me that I will never have a long lasting relationship, is that really my fate? Can I not change that fate?

2.  Am I willing to relegate my responsibility to co-creating what I want to another person who tells me it is impossible?

3.  Would I be willing to risk having my “heartbroken” if I knew that it was just part of the journey towards manifesting my ideal relationship?

4.  If my capacity for joy and peace is proportional to my willingness to experience pain and suffering, would I be open to experience what I need to learn in order to get to the other side?

Here’s the thing, Mona. You clearly want something different from what the Indian priest told you, right? So you have a decision to make. Those who have been studying and training the Law of Attraction will tell you that your desire is a powerful magnet to co-creating your reality with the Universe.

Your choices: You decide that you believe whatever the Indian priest says and you cannot change your fate OR you decide that what he/she said was just one perspective but that you choose to believe you can create a different reality.

It is up to you. I, for one, would prefer to create my own destiny. Of course, what we co-create is not in a vacuum…the outcome has to be in the highest good of all in order for it to happen. So in your situation, unless you can come up with a really GREAT reason that the world would NOT benefit from you being in a happy relationship, (maybe there is one, but I can’t think of any) then there is a possibility that you can achieve what you want.

Does that make sense?

Besides, what the Indian priest was “reading” when you saw him/her was your energy field at that moment in time. The energy you emanated was one of lack and disappointment, so it makes sense that your “future” was headed for the same energetic imprint. He/she was correct in their “reading”.

However, your “future” can change moment to moment depending on the average energetic field you are emanating. So to change your “future” you need to shift your current energy field to a higher vibration from one of lack and disappointment to one of gratitude and abundance.

Thus, even though the priest may have been “correct” in his reading at the time, it can become completely wrong if you jump to a new energy stream. And to jump to a new energy stream, all you need to do is start growing.

If all of us do not grow, do you know what we do? We die. Growing or evolving is part of our human journey. Plants are either growing or dying. They don’t stay still. Get it?

So if you’re getting the “same old thing” happening to you in relationships, it either means you haven’t learned from your past relationships and shifted into a higher energy state, or that the perception you have chosen does not serve you in getting you what you want.

Here is a quick exercise you can do immediately to start shifting a perception that doesn’t serve you. Instead of dumping all of your previously heartbreaking relationships into the “that was a waste of time and the only good thing it did was to hurt me” bucket, I want you to make a list of all the GIFTS you were given as a result of those relationships….and I mean EACH AND EVERY ONE.

Are you stumped yet? Or are you excited to start growing?

Can you not appreciate ANY of the gifts? Because there are many. To the extent you can “see” those gifts, you will shift into higher energy state, thereby moving towards (as opposed to away from) manifesting what you want.

Here’s a summary:

  • You can choose to see your past as just “hurts” or as gifts from which you can grow and move closer to what you wish to manifest
  • The priest will be “right” about his prediction if you do not consciously decide that he is not, (you take back the responsibility for co-creating your life instead of giving it to others)
  • You have the power to co-create your reality even it is different from the one the priest told you about
  • You need to move into a higher energy state in order to achieve a reality you have not been able to create previously
  • Working on your personal growth is the way to move into a higher energy state


Mona, I challenge you to write down (you can use the comment section below the blog post) every gift you can appreciate from your past “heartbreaking” relationships, so you can move forward. This is just a start. Often we need help in shifting our energy. What you can do is get support from someone who has already accomplished what you wish to accomplish and learn from that person.

I believe in you.


Dr. Karen Kan


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Dear Dr. Karen: Why Isn’t My Dream Partner Here Yet?

Posted on 25 November 2008 by Dr. Karen

I received this question from Angel recently and wanted to share with you my response:

Dear Dr. Karen:

I really do believe in the law of attraction I have a positive outlook and act like I am already in a relationship. I have everything I have always wanted except someone to share it with. I am clear and specific about who I want. When and how will this happen? I can feel it but it’s not there…

Dear Angel,

You are not the only one who asks this question. I remember when I was manifesting my dream partner James, I became disappointed after 8 months of “doing my best” and my dream ice-skating love partner was nowhere to be found!

There is something important you need to know about how the law of attraction works. The Universe has the ideal timing for everything and we are not in conscious control of that timing (of when “it” will happen). I recommend that you listen to my colleague Sandy Sain in the interview I did with her on blog talk radio (see radio player on the side bar at www.lawofattractioninlove.com) when she told me how she went on 500 dates over five years before she knew herself well enough and became the person she needed to become to manifest her dream partner Bob. When I asked her whether it was worth the wait (total of eight years I believe, after her divorce), she said YES!

Since you’ve been specific in asking for your partner and have been embodying the energy of already having received and are “acting” as if this person will show up in any moment, your current job is just one thing – ENJOY your life. Yes, enjoy your life. You said you have everything thing you’ve ever wanted. WOW! Amazing! That is wonderful! So all you need to do now is to fully engage in your PRESENT life (because you have to be PRESENT to manifest something in the future). Your dream partner will come if that is your soul’s true calling!

That being said, there is one thing that my mentor and bestselling author, Keith Leon, told me about manifesting your ideal partner that you need to know about. Look at the list of qualities you have written down for your ideal mate. You need to become all those qualities (aside from the physical ones!) before you can attract them. So, for example, if you wrote down that you partner must have integrity and honesty, check in with yourself as to whether you can truly say you fully embody those qualities yourself. The Law of Attraction states that like attracts like, so you must BECOME that which you wish to attract. If you want a weatlhy mate, then become wealthy yourself. If you want someone who is very kind and compassionate, practice being ever-more compassionate to people around you (including yourself) on a daily basis. Get the picture?

Most of all, just TRUST that The Universe has your best interests in mind and that your manifestation will appear when you least expect. Practice LETTING GO of your attachment to your intention, which will free up the energy around it (and thus bring it quicker to you), yet at the same time feeling passionate about what you want. Passion and attachment are not the same thing. The energy of ATTACHMENT feels needy and scarce. The energy of PASSION is a great magnet.

Enjoy your life! I believe in you!
Dr. Karen

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Dear Dr. Karen: How Can I Make Him Love Me Back Using the Law of Attraction?

Posted on 15 June 2008 by Dr. Karen

“Dear Dr. Karen, how can I make the man I love love me back using the law of attraction” Esraa

Dear Esraa,

The lovely thing about the law of attraction is that is works for everyone including the man you love. You are responsible for co-creating your reality with The Universe and so is he. The law of attraction states that similar vibrations are attracted to each other. What that means in a practical sense is that his vibration must be similar to yours in order for you both to become attracted to each other.

Each of our vibrations are created through our own thoughts and emotions. Thus, you cannot control another person’s thoughts or emotions can you? You can try to, but we call that manipulation, and it doesn’t really get you a happy relationship in the end! The bottom line is this: you can use every law of attraction technique in the book to try to attract your love to you, but if his own thoughts and desires are of a different wavelength, you’re out of luck.

That being said, let me tell you what you CAN do. You can send loving thoughts and wishes to this man, and in sending them, also send the feeling of being unattached to the outcome of what you want (i.e. being with him). In other words, if you wrote a pretend letter to him, it would go something like this:

“Dear _______, I want you to know how much I love you. And I realize that in order to love you fully, I am letting go of all attachment to us being together. I’d love for us to share our lives together because I love you so much. Yet, because I love you, I want to respect your path and your vision of how you want to live. I pray you live a happy, healthy and prosperous life. If we are meant for each other, I rejoice. If we are not, I may be sad at first, but eventually I’ll rejoice in knowing that I have supported you in your freedom of choice to live your life the way you see fit – and for that I feel good. And if we are not to be together, then I will rejoice in knowing that there is someone else special for me that The Universe has in mind. Bless you. Love, Esraa”

Esraa, you can make up your own pretend letter. The purpose of the letter is to train you to let go of your attachment to having THIS particular man love you. Your attachment actually blocks your manifestation. It is loving unattachment that brings our manfestations quickly to us. What I’ve noticed in the “real” world is that often, when you let go of desparately wanting someone, they are more attracted to you. Few people are attracted to a desperate or needy lover – in fact often, they want to run the other direction!

If you can somehow get into the mindset of “I’m amazing! and anyone having a relationship wtih me is incredibly blessed”, just wait and see who turns up! You may have to work at it, but when you can actually practice this feeling, miracles happen!


Dr. Karen Kan

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Dear Dr. Karen: How Do I Manifest My Crush’s Attention?

Posted on 15 June 2008 by Dr. Karen

“Dear Dr. Karen, I’m just wondering – I currently have a crush on someone and want to know how to attract him? Sometimes I do get negative when I fail to get a response from him. These last few days he hasn’t been online and I’m starting to notice my own negative thinking when this happens (because he was online everyday prior to this). I know this is wrong and  I try to think positive, but how do I work to attract him?” Sultan

Dear Sultan,

A couple of things I would like to clarify for you to make your life easier:

1. Negative thoughts are not “bad”, they are part of human existence. It is impossible to banish all negative thoughts and although you may have heard from teachings of the Law of Attraction to focus on positive thoughts, don’t beat yourself up for having negative thoughts. It is when you beat yourself up for having negative thoughts that you GIVE THEM MORE POWER!

Instead, when you have negative thoughts, just notice them and let them pass without judgment. This isn’t easy at first, but after a while, you can even make a game of it. If you notice a negative thought, you can say to your mind, “thank you for sharing, cancel/pass” and then automatically train yourself to think of something else, something positive or supportive, or distract yourself altogether.

2. Thinking “positive” and creating a relationship using the law of attraction can be very different things. Please read my blog entry on “the law of attraction is NOT positive thinking”. So when you are attempting to create a relationship with this man you have a crush on, what exactly are you wanting in a relationship? You need to send a clear message to the Universe what you want, not who you want. There is a difference. If you ask the Universe to give you someone who gives you lots of loving affection, who is humorous and energetic, the Universe will find that person for you. But if you have a preconceived idea of what your “crush” is like in a relationship and he doesn’t fit into your deepest wants and desires (as the Universe would already know this), the Universe will not comply with your conscious wish attract this particular man. Know what I mean?

The man you have a crush on may or may not be a suitable partner for you. And maybe he’d be suitable for a short time only so you can learn a lesson. Personally, I believe in being honest and straightforward. I’m not a fan of mind-games. In other words, ask this man if he’d be interested in dating you. Tell him why you like him and that you are interested in him, and see what he has to say. If he disappears off the face of the earth and you never hear from him again, you have your answer from the Universe – “he’s not the best one for you right now”, and you will have cleared valuable space for a better relationship to come along.

On the other hand, he might be really happy about it, and you’ve saved yourself a lot of wasted time guessing how he feels. The best relationships I’ve ever witnessed and have been in were relationships where there was no guessing. Each individual in the relationship was honest and upfront and willing to be vulnerable (in their honesty).

In my humble opinion, life is too short to dance around the issue. Ask for what you want. If what you think you want doesn’t match with your unconscious spiritual desires, you’ll know very quickly! The Universe is there to support you in every way with miracles.

3. Manifesting laws can be summarized like this: your thoughts lead to your feelings, which lead to your actions, which leads to your results. If you are too scared to be upfront with this man about your attraction to him, what does that say about your thoughts? The Universe will help you but you will have to take action, which means having courage to undergo whatever happens after you take action. Just believing that whatever happens is for your own highest good is a wonderful way to live a happy peaceful life!

Let us know what happens after you take action.


Dr. Karen Kan

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