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The Secret to Healing your Marriage

Posted on 13 November 2012 by Dr. Karen

I am writing to you on behalf of my friend and colleague, Dr. Deb Hirschhorn. Did you know that it is possible to fall in love again even when a marriage has gone very bad? Dr. Deb believes – and it’s been proven – that it is. Scroll to the bottom to see the link to the radio show I did with Dr. Deb!


Before I say more, let me tell you that Dr. Deb has my complete endorsement. Her approach is unique: She’s all about healing a marriage so it can be better than it ever was or would be if left alone.


Her new book, The Healing is Mutual: Marriage Empowerment Tools to Rebuild Trust and Respect—Together, being launched, today, NOVEMBER 13, goes beyond “saving your marriage”  – it’s looking to help couples fall in love again.


According to Dr. Deb, a Marriage and Family Therapist, healing—not divorce—is the only good alternative to a bad marriage. See why at http://theHealingIsMutual.com/download.


You, personally, may be blessed with a good, happy, affirming marriage, a marriage of love and respect. If you’re not this will surely be of interest to you. Even if your marriage is “okay” – let’s make it better!


Besides that, unfortunately, you probably know many people struggling in their marriages. Here is a chance to help them to transform their marriage!


When you go to http://theHealingIsMutual.com/download you’ll be astonished by the comments and feedbacks that are there.

According to New York Times best-selling author and marketing whiz, Peggy McColl, “This may be as big as or bigger than Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus– it’s that good and that powerful.




Please resend this message to your list so everyone is included. Have them visit Dr. Deb’s launch page http://theHealingIsMutual.com/dowload to find out why divorce is a rotten option and why a book can be better help than a counselor to start their marriage over – with the same spouse!


Oh, one more thing. There are dozens of free gifts on that page from all Dr. Deb’s colleagues (including one from me) because we believe in what she is doing. We want to see this book out there helping people. Go check out http://theHealingIsMutual.com/dowload and see all the positive feedback this book has already received from people who used it.


And if you don’t want to send the email, buy the book for your friends. Leave a copy for them. They will be forever grateful.
You are seeing that The Healing Is Mutual can improve your marriage. It’s clearly worth the small investment of less than two movie tickets.
Here is a word from Dr. Deb herself:


Hi there,


I’m Dr. Deb and if there is one thing I want you to know about me, it’s that my whole approach as a Marriage and Family Therapist to helping couples is NOT about finger-pointing; it’s NOT about “diagnosing” the “problem” and it’s NOT about just “communicating.”


My approach is about building on your strengths, being understanding of what you’ve been through, and giving you solutions that are emotional, spiritual, intellectual, and behavioral. You can pick and choose which ones are the best fit for you, but they are all geared to healing. Healed people have space for happiness.


I believe that you have suffered and now it’s time to heal.


I want to help you heal from your past and your present. I want to help you and your partner to create a beautiful future. I want to help you to fall in love again. It is possible. Go read why on my page http://theHealingIsMutual.com/dowload


My very best wishes to you!


Dr. Deb




So there you have it. And let me say just one more thing before I send this off to you…


I visited Dr. Deb’s website to see all she is giving away. And I am telling you … I was AMAZED! You need to check this out for yourself, for sure.




Dr. Deb is clearly over delivering. And when you see all that she is doing for her readers on Launch Day today, you will certainly agree.



Dr. Karen Kan


PS. Here is the radio show interview I did with Dr. Deb as an extra bonus! Check it out here: http://www.blogtalkradio.com/drkaren/2012/08/27/heal-your-marriage

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Why singles would want to know how to heal a marriage

Posted on 27 August 2012 by Dr. Karen

Did you get a chance to listen to the radio show I did with Dr. Deb Hirschorn on Healing Marriage based on her upcoming book, The Healing is Mutual: Marriage Empowerment Tools? If you didn’t, please listen to the replay here:  http://www.blogtalkradio.com/drkaren/2012/08/27/heal-your-marriage
Everyone comes into marriage with great expectation, not knowing that they also come into marriage with their old wounds. Understanding that marriage can be an opportunity to heal those wounds makes the journey joyful and rewarding. In the show, we talked about:
  • how divorce can be a healing opportunity rather than a court battle
  • how “funny” name-calling can be “put downs” that really hurt the other person and what to say if you’re on the receiving end of these
  • the difference between being “sensitive” and being “victimized”
  • how you get your partner interested in healing your relationship when you’re the only one interested
We got lots of great feedback for this show, so please take the time to listen in, even if you have a happy marriage. If you’re single, it’s just as important that you learn these things as well BEFORE you get married.
For listeners, you can get a free eBook on Signs Your Marriage Needs Help by texting your name and email address to 516-628-6077 or going tohttp://thehealingismutual.com/gift.

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Change your beliefs so Law of Attraction will “work”

Posted on 14 August 2012 by Dr. Karen

Would you like to experience more success, happiness, and freedom consistently?

Are you still stuck in certain areas of your life, despite years of personal growth work and thousands of dollars spent on workshops, therapy, and belief transformation processes?

It’s very possible that your subconscious beliefs are getting in your way.  I know this has been true for me.

And I’m thrilled to tell you about a very powerful process for clearing out these self-defeating beliefs–permanently!

It’s called the BeliefCloset Process, and on Wed. August 15th, personal transformation pioneer Lion Goodman will be giving a free teleseminar on his simple, powerful method. If you bought my Law of Attraction in Love eBook, you’ll already know how important shifting our beliefs are. I shared with you my methods in my book, but I’m so happy to be able to invite you to this free training with Lion Goodman!

Join Lion for “Clear Our Your Belief Closet: How to Release Hidden Blocks to Your Success.”

Get more details here:  https://shiftnetwork.infusionsoft.com/go/bccall/drkaren/

During this free call, you’ll learn:

–       Three easy ways to identify hidden beliefs that are holding you back

–       A powerful method for shifting any negative or uncomfortable feeling instantly, in the moment!

–       A simple empowerment tool to help you recognize yourself as the creator of your experiences, rather than a victim of your circumstance

According to Lion Goodman and hundreds who’ve done this process, changing your beliefs can be as easy as changing your clothes!

And when you clear out  these self-defeating beliefs, they’re gone — for good – and you’re free to manifest what you really want.

Join me here for this call:  https://shiftnetwork.infusionsoft.com/go/bccall/drkaren/

Yours truly,

Karen Kan

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Empower Your Mind… Empower Your Life!

Posted on 08 June 2010 by Dr. Karen

We all know that minds create and most of us put a lot of energy into positive thinking. Why then are we living in such troubling times? Today I bring you information that is vital for living truly free lives, where you are in control and fully empowered! If this wasn’t extremely important, I wouldn’t bother to tell you about it.

I am writing about my friend and colleague, Eldon Taylor, who I interviewed not that long ago on my Law of Attraction in Love Radio Show (to listen to the archive free of charge, go to www.BlogTalkRadio.com/drkaren) and the brand new paperback release of his International Bestseller, Mind Programming. This is simply a must-read book! This message is so important that many of the world’s visionaries, myself included, have joined together to support this book launch.

“As you read this book, you’ll feel the blinders being removed and you will truly see the world in an entirely new light.”
– Jeff Warrick, documentary filmmaker, Programming the Nation?

Eldon bares the facts, exposing the groups ranging from media types to governmental agencies that have spent billions of dollars learning how to surreptitiously gain access to your thoughts, your motivations and your choices. See for yourself in the ‘smoking gun’ of advertising manuals, in the secret clandestine work of governmental agencies, in the neuro-technology labs of the sellers of goods and services. You will be shocked and horrified at the extent a few have gone to shape every aspect of your thinking, and this programming goes on everyday!

“Brainwashing and marketing are big business; and your precious mind is a coveted commodity. In this book Eldon Taylor exposes all and tells you how to take your power back and be free to become your own best self. Eldon is a grand master of the mind.”
– Joan Borysenko, Ph.D., author of Your Soul’s Compass

Mind Programming is really two books in one. The first half of the book is the tell-all story that uncovers the unseen influences that are so pervasive, penetrating and effective. The second half of the book is all about the tools and technologies you can use to cleanse your mind of the non-sense you may not have even recognized as being present before reading this liberating book. Think about it. How many original thoughts do you really have? How many thoughts are about your limitations, your fears, your anxieties, the things you want, and so forth. You will learn that from sickness and anxiety to the way you comb your hair and dress, and so much more, are all a part of what you have been trained to think and choose. You will also learn some very simple easy-to-use tools that can free your mind and empower your being.

“In a period when fear has reached a frenzied pitch, Taylor shines a brilliant spotlight to dispel the darkness!”
– Angelina Heart, author of The Teaching of Little Crow

View the Video Trailer for Mind Programming:

Even if you already have some awareness of the everyday mind manipulation techniques, and are already guarding against these intrusions, there will be areas you simply have not heard of. Even if none of this information is of interest to you because you are already guarding the input into your minds, you will be thankful to finally have the facts, figures and hard evidence to present to your family and friends, so they too can escape from the everyday brainwashing. But Eldon does not leave it there as he also covers numerous tools and techniques to assist you in taking back the control of your mind. These tools range from exercises that will not cost you a penny, such as the ’50-day plan,’ automatic writing, and mind exercises, to high tech (but affordable) tools such as cortical electro-stimulation. Whatever your preference, Mind Programming will provide you with the information vital for today’s climate.

PLUS: Mind Programming ships with a free, high-tech, mind-training CD, that utilizes the patented and proven InnerTalk technology. This CD normally sells by itself for $27.95 but you can get the book and CD now together for under $15.

“Even though I consider myself to be quite aware of what is going on in the world, this book boldly shatters illusions about how extensive the mind control in our society has become. Are you really free? Only if you can take back control your mind. Thank heavens, Dr. Taylor shows us how in one of the most important books I have ever read.”
– Terri Marie, author of Be the Hero of Your Own Game

More details here:

I am so excited about this new book because I know it can really make a powerful difference in your life. That is why I have joined with many visionaries in offering special bonus incentives when you get your copy today. When you purchase your copy of Mind Programming, you will:

1) Have a chance to win 2 tickets to a Hay House conference. Everyone who orders Mind Programming during this limited time promotion can enter to win two tickets to the I CAN DO IT Conference in Tampa, Florida where Eldon will be appearing in November.

2) Be entered to win Eldon’s finest success library, Your Personal Best, featuring 28 programs on 20 CDs; all using the patented and proven InnerTalk technology. This is a $599 value.

3) Attend a free pre-screening of Jeff Warrick’s mind-blowing documentary, Programming The Nation.

4) Gain free membership to Eldon’s Mind Matters community, where you will find numerous gifts valued in the thousands of dollars. These gifts are all yours for acting today and getting your copy of Mind Programming. Pick up all your gifts today, or come back once you have read Mind Programming – the choice is yours. Take your time and enjoy exploring the best tools available. Try them for free and decide for yourself what works best for you! These gifts come to you from over 100 supporters including Wayne Dyer, Louise Hay, Marci Shimoff, Michael Bernard Beckwith, Judith Orloff, Gary Renard, Sandra Anne Taylor and Crystal Andrus.

This is a limited time special offer. So don’t hesitate, act now and get your copy today.

“It’s only your mind if you manage what goes into it, otherwise it is analogous to a computer that the world has read and write access to.”
-Eldon Taylor, author of Mind Programming



Dr. Karen Kan

P.S. Feel free to forward this e-mail to all of your friends!

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Dear Dr. Karen: I’m Unhappy But I Can’t Leave My Partner…

Posted on 13 October 2008 by Dr. Karen

Hi Dr. Karen,

I am in a relationship I don’t want to be in. I care for the person a lot but I have needs and wants and they are not being taken care of. I realize I have choices, but he needs me I cannot just leave him. I do not want to be the reason something worse will happen to him. My energy is at a standstill, I am really interested in Reiki I have been reading up on it, I need the energy, I need to heal myself to be able to be strong and get out of a relationship I am in. Your Ebook sounds great, right now the money is real tight, I probably wont be able to get the book. I want so much to be able to be happy and live my life the way i want. Men have always made me feel small and not worthy of love and attention I want and need. Iam afraid to do what I want. What do you think I can do? Thank you. Love and Happiness,

Dear Donna,

One of the most challenging aspects of being fully responsible for co-creating your life is to let go of the belief that you are responsible for another person’s health and happiness over and above your own. Just because you cannot imagine that your partner could have a happier life without you, doesn’t mean he isn’t capable of it. You do him a great disservice by imagining him as a weakling. You  have co-created a situation where you’ve trapped yourself (and him) to a life that is neither happy nor fulfilling for either of you.

Your belief that he cannot live without you is a disempowering belief that doesn’t serve him. In other words, you are literally taking away his power to act on his own behalf by your choices and how you perceive him. Instead, try to perceive your partner as a person who has the potential to be responsible for his own happiness.

Have the courage to choose your path and own up to your responsibility to make yourself happy instead of accepting the victim role in your life circumstances..and in that process, pray and believe that the Universe will step in and help those you care about. When my husband and I departed ways as a couple, I had similar concerns. My husband had depressive tendencies and I was concerned that he would be very depressed without me. Nevertheless, I decided to be responsible for my own happiness and left the marriage despite warnings from my parents that all hell would break loose. Despite my own deep depression at the time, on some level, I had faith that The Universe would step in and create a miracle. And a miracle it did create!

Not only did my husband NOT become deeply depressed, he developed his own personal growth journey. He went to Spain to learn new skills and at the same time got introduced to a spiritual practice including yoga. He then expanded himself by reading books on spirituality and continuing his yoga practice at home. And he finally manifested his dream love partner – a rugged woman who is both a yoga teacher and a spiritual explorer. And best of all, she is a much better match for him than I ever could be. Had I not decided to leave the marriage, he would never have found his dream partner.

So Donna, you have to TRUST the Universe. Your partner will learn to survive without you – and you can help him by believing in him. His dependency on you is neither healthy or empowering. He may struggle for a bit, but struggle is not always a bad thing. It is only when we reach a degree of intense discomfort that we finally choose to change our ways. Isn’t that right?

You are a loving caring soul. Jesus taught us to love thy neighbor as thyself. He didn’t say love thy neighbor MORE than thyself. Learn to love yourself fully. Accept whatever faults you have (none of us are perfect). And with courage and faith, more forward with your life. Seek counseling and support to help you.

I believe in you.


Dr. Karen Kan

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Do You Deserve A Wonderful Love Partner?

Posted on 18 May 2008 by Dr. Karen

I was on a coaching call with one of my new clients last week. She had recently come to the realization that she never felt deserving of a happy love life – that she never really felt good enough. I understand where she was coming from because that has been my issue since childhood. I struggle with that all the time, but the good news is that with the personal growth work I’m doing, the “not good enough” story is loosening its grip on me.

And for this new client, she told me that after reading the first couple of chapters of my eBook, Creating Your Fairytale Love Life – Harness the law of attraction to manifest your dream partner, she realized that all these years of being in unhappy relationships, her STORY had been that all the good men were already taken. Thus she kept manifesting relationships with unavailable (married) men!

She now understands that she could either stick to her story and NOT get what she wants (a happy relationship with a wonderful man) or change her story in order to manifest her dream partner. I give her a lot of credit for admitting her non-supportive story and choosing a supportive one instead – “there are plenty of wonderful AVAILABLE men out there to choose from!”

So what’s your story been? i.e. the story that you’ve been telling yourself that has prevented you from manifesting your dream partner. Is it someone else’s fault? Do you believe you aren’t good enough or deserving enough? Are all the good one’s taken? Whatever your story is, it’s gotten you this far. If you haven’t arrived at creating your dream partner, maybe you ought to consider changing your story because it may not be serving you.

Shifting from victimhood to empowerment in our lives is a necessary step in manifesting what you want in your life. You have so much power. Harness the law of attraction by choosing those beliefs that serve you and letting go of the ones that do not. Your life will never be the same!


Dr. Karen Kan

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