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Here’s Your Ultimate Way to Optimum Health

Posted on 07 December 2012 by Dr. Karen

The Cure Is radio show interview

Do you want the “cure” for your health woes?


Are you tired of run-of-the-mill healing books/DVDs that only offer false promises and misleading claims?


Here’s a good news for you:


On my Monday radio show, I will interview David Scharpsan independent filmmaker who made history after creating the life-changing health documentary,“The Cure Is..”
Inspired by his passion for health and natural healing, David embarked on a journey to create an eye-opening masterpiece. And after two years of backbreaking work, “The Cure is” was finally born.


“The Cure Is..” is David’s work of art–a gift for patient groups and communities that are battling various health threats. Devoid of false claims and sales pitch, “The Cure Is” will bring you a health formula more powerful than what human genetics can offer. It will unveil the truth about how your thoughts, beliefs and emotions can be the key towards achieving optimum health.


If you want to experience true healing and get the best for your health, don’t forget to tune in on Monday.


Here are the details for the radio show:


Monday, December 10, 12 noon Eastern New York Time.


  •  Option 2: To listen by phone, call 818-514-1190. If you’d like to ask a question “live” on the show, just hit “1” on your dial pad so I can see your hand is up. When the time comes, I will unmute you so you can chat with us.


I’m looking forward to having you join me for the show! And just in case you can’t make it, it will be recorded and available immediately. Just click the link above to listen to the archives.

Dr. Karen Kan


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Catalyze Change with the BeliefCloset Process

Posted on 14 October 2012 by Dr. Karen

Please join me Monday for my recorded radio show interview with Lion Goodman, creator of the BeliefCloset Process.

If you’ve ever tried The Work by Byron Katie, EFT or Tapping for abundance, or any other personal growth process to shift your reality and it hasn’t worked as well as you would have liked, then this show is for you.

Our beliefs manifest our reality which includes our relationships, our money, our career success and our health. If you’re not seeing the “results” in your life that you’d like, then you know it is your underlying beliefs that are thwarting you. Here’s the rub: Beliefs are traditionally tough to change because most are trapped in the subconscious. The problem with other techniques to shift beliefs is that they don’t necessarily communicate with the deeper underlying layers of the subconscious where your original programming lies.

Beliefs get formed long before you have language which is why using a technique that involves the use of words doesn’t always work. It is like trimming your weeds and expecting them to be gone instead of pulling them out by the roots.

To get a sense of how this BeliefCloset process works and some tips on manifesting through the chakras, listen in to the show!

Here are the details:

Monday October 15, 12 noon Eastern New York Time.

You can listen to this RECORDED radio show interview through the following link:

Enjoy the show!
Dr. Karen Kan

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Dear Dr. Karen: How Can An African Woman Use the Law of Attraction?

Posted on 03 April 2009 by Dr. Karen

Dear Dr. Karen,

Thank you for all your newsletters and for teaching me about the law of attraction. My question is: how can I, as an African woman, apply this law of attraction to my life?


Dear Israa,

The wonderful thing about the law of attraction is that it is like the law of gravity: it shows no favorites! It doesn’t matter whether you are African or Asian or Hispanic – anyone can practice harnessing the law of attraction to magnetize more of what they want into their life.

The interesting thing about your question is that it feels like you have a preconceived idea that harnessing the law of attraction would be more difficult given your ancestry. Is that true? Be honest.

If it is true, you have then been given a gift! Why? Because you have now identified a LIMITING BELIEF that you have that may be blocking you from manifesting what you want. It is similar to someone who thinks they are too fat, too old, too young, or too ugly to be able to manifest their soulmate or dream partner using the law of attraction.

Whatever you believe, you will conceive. In other words, if you believe that being African makes it harder for you to attract your perfect mate, then you will co-create THAT reality in your life. If you believe it will be harder, it WILL be harder.

My ex-husband had a long-held believe that the type of person he wanted as his new partner didn’t exist. He wanted an Asian “mountain” woman. In other words, he wanted to be with another Asian woman who was feminine and attractive but was at the same time “tough” and willing to “rough it” in the woods even it it meant no running water or a toilet. (Guess what, I was DEFINITELY not a mountain woman. I tried for years but made myself miserable and sick trying. I’ve gone back to who I really am: A Princess! Ha ha)

When I confronted my ex-husband about his beliefs, as did some of his best friends, he conceded to let go of his non-supportive belief that his ideal woman didn’t exist. Within a month or so, he met a beautiful Asian woman online that met all his criteria!

So my suggestion to you is to let go of the belief that your race has anything to do with how well you can manifest your dream partner. You are a valuable loving human being. That is enough.


Dr. Karen Kan

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Do You Deserve A Wonderful Love Partner?

Posted on 18 May 2008 by Dr. Karen

I was on a coaching call with one of my new clients last week. She had recently come to the realization that she never felt deserving of a happy love life – that she never really felt good enough. I understand where she was coming from because that has been my issue since childhood. I struggle with that all the time, but the good news is that with the personal growth work I’m doing, the “not good enough” story is loosening its grip on me.

And for this new client, she told me that after reading the first couple of chapters of my eBook, Creating Your Fairytale Love Life – Harness the law of attraction to manifest your dream partner, she realized that all these years of being in unhappy relationships, her STORY had been that all the good men were already taken. Thus she kept manifesting relationships with unavailable (married) men!

She now understands that she could either stick to her story and NOT get what she wants (a happy relationship with a wonderful man) or change her story in order to manifest her dream partner. I give her a lot of credit for admitting her non-supportive story and choosing a supportive one instead – “there are plenty of wonderful AVAILABLE men out there to choose from!”

So what’s your story been? i.e. the story that you’ve been telling yourself that has prevented you from manifesting your dream partner. Is it someone else’s fault? Do you believe you aren’t good enough or deserving enough? Are all the good one’s taken? Whatever your story is, it’s gotten you this far. If you haven’t arrived at creating your dream partner, maybe you ought to consider changing your story because it may not be serving you.

Shifting from victimhood to empowerment in our lives is a necessary step in manifesting what you want in your life. You have so much power. Harness the law of attraction by choosing those beliefs that serve you and letting go of the ones that do not. Your life will never be the same!


Dr. Karen Kan

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Too Short To Be Lovable?

Posted on 07 March 2008 by Dr. Karen

I decided to include this heartfelt letter as part of my blog. Mr. P. writes:“Hi Dear Dr. Karen. I am 22 y.o. Iranian, height 166 cm and Weight 120 kg. I am so depressed because I think no girl or woman on the planet will love me. I don’t have a girlfriend. I think that my entire problem is caused by my short stature. I have thought about suicide four times, help me..”Dear Mr. P.,I am easily able to feel your deep sadness. In fact, I had a little cry just to release the feeling from my body. I understand your sadness. I’ve been there before my friend. You are not as alone as you think.

As part of my healer work, I asked the Angels to help you. Two volunteered to be by your side, day and night. I don’t know if you can feel their presence, but they want you to know that you are loved. It’s OK even if you don’t believe in Angels. I’ve seen many a miracle in my life, so I have no doubt they exist.

Now, let’s take a look at your beliefs. Beliefs manifest our reality. I love the saying “I’ll See it when I believe it” which is why I put the quote on a T-shirt at my Law of Attraction Store. Mr. P., your belief is that no woman would ever love you because of your height. I’m assuming that you are judging your height as being too short, right?

Can I ask you one question? Would you be willing to change your beliefs? In other words, would you be willing to let go of the belief that you can’t be loved because you are “too short”? You see, in your reality, it may feel “true”, but that is because you have created your reality with your belief. In my world, I see plenty of short men who are happily in relationship. In fact, my friend Garry is shorter than you are and is an Asian man.

I grew up with the belief in my Chinese culture that tall women were very unattractive. My mother told me that because she is taller than most Chinese men. She spent the greater part of her life hunched over to hide her tallness. Nowadays she looks like a model. In the North American culture, she is absolutely stunningly beautiful at 5 foot 7 inches! See, in my culture, it was the woman’s height that was the issue, not the man’s! My friend Garry is happily married to a Caucasian woman who is at least 4 inches taller and they have a beautiful little girl.

When you believe something, the Universe will rearrange itself to make you RIGHT. In my eBook, Creating Your Fairytale Love Life in Chapter 5, I show you some techniques you can use to “change” your belief state, so you may wish to take advantage of the exercises and videos in that chapter.

I can tell you that in my world, Mr. P., there is no such thing as too short, too tall, too weird, too fat etc. Everyone can and deserves to be loved. The question is –  do you love yourself?

The girlfriend that you wish for is not there to give you what you cannot give yourself (love). Many people (so you are not alone) are looking for someone to love them so they will feel lovable. The opposite needs to happen in order to manifest a wonderful relationship. You must love and appreciate yourself first in order to attract the wonderful relationship.

There is a Secret nobody told us when we were kids. The “other” person in a relationship is not there to make us whole! They are not supposed to be responsible for making us happy or feel loved. Nope! Do you want to know the real purpose for relationships? The REAL purpose for relationships is to grow ourselves spiritually…that’s it. That’s all.

So Dear Mr. P. You may not believe me, but you are already loved. The substance from which we all come, that which I call The Universe (others call The One, God, Divine etc.) loves you. Now it is your turn to love you.

If you REALLY want change, here is your homework assignment. I really hope you take this challenge and run with it: For the next 30 days, everyday create a list of at least 10 things you love and appreciate about yourself. While you are writing, if any negative thought comes up, just say “cancel” or “pass” and keep writing, focusing on the positive. It could be that you appreciate yourself because you have great rhythm and you love to dance, or that you are extremely kind to your parents, or that you absolutely love history books etc. It doesn’t matter what it is, just make a new habit of appreciating yourself daily.

While you are writing, remember to really FEEL the feelings of appreciation. It is the MAGNETIC substance that draws what we want into our lives. The truth in my situation was that when I began truly appreciating my qualities rather than criticizing myself most of the time, it was the start of the happiest time of my life.

Lastly, Mr. P. I highly recommend that you consider taking the Enlighted Warrior Training Camp http://www.enlightenedwarrior.com  run by Peak Potentials training. Year after year there are stories of people on the edge of suicide when they arrive at the camp and they leave a completely changed person…strong, compassionate and empowered. You can receive a discount on tuition, I believe, by being referred by a graduate so I will give you my referral number: 232364.

It is important for you to receive support. Having suicidal thoughts is very serious and I urge you to seek professional care as soon as possible. Talk to your doctor and ask for a referral to an empathetic counselor or psychologist. I also suggest that you read the new bestseller by Marci Shimoff, Happy for No Reason.


Dr. Karen

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