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5 Most Common Breakup Mistakes

Posted on 22 September 2015 by Dr. Karen

How do we End Love, Lovingly?

Relationships can be among the most challenging experiences we face in our lives.

When a relationship breaks down, your heart breaks, too, and your whole life can seem damaged beyond repair…

Few people like to talk about this darker side of love, because it can feel embarrassing to admit you’re not totally over someone or that your sadness hasn’t gone away.

But I know someone who’s spent a lot of time thinking about how to end a relationship in a way that can leave your heart happy, whole—someone who has been right there and can show you the way out of months or even years of needless suffering.

Her name is Katherine Woodward Thomas, and she is one of my all-time favorite love coaches out there. She is now offering a FREE introductory course Conscious Uncoupling: How to Avoid the 5 Most-Common Breakup Mistakes that Cause Suffering, Steal Joy, and Prevent Future Love.


This introductory course offers a fresh new approach to the end of a relationship, as well as insights that can help you salvage a troubled relationship and avoid a breakup, and just the right amount of soothing balm to heal your heart and soul from unwanted heartbreak pain (even if your relationship ended long ago).

Katherine’s beautiful and inspiring video series will guide you to transform your difficult feelings from breakups,and clear out any toxic emotional residue and resentment you might still be carrying in your life.

I highly suggest checking out her stuff. And it’s free so what do you have to lose? Just click HERE to sign up for the free course. And be sure to share this blog post with someone you care about. They will thank you for it!


Dr. Karen

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What is Your “Love Personality Type?”

Posted on 26 August 2014 by Dr. Karen

featured imageHow You Are Attracting Love (Without Even Realizing it!)

Have you ever wondered why you attract a certain “type” of romantic partner to you? What if I told you that you had a “love personality type” that determines who you love, and how you attract love to you?

Would you be curious to learn more?

This is just one of the many topics that will be covered in the FREE online event The Secrets to Finding True Love. This event is hosted by best-selling author Arielle Ford & Feminine Power co-founder Claire Zammit, PhD.c and it is featuring a TON of world-renowned love experts including: Dr. John Gray, Neale Donald Walsch, Dr. Helen Fisher, Gay & Kathlyn Hendricks, Katherine Woodward Thomas MA, MFT, Jean Houston, Alison Armstrong, Christian Carter.

How exciting to have so many inspiring love leaders in one place!


Here’s just a taste of some of the things you’ll discover at this FREE 8-day online event The Secrets to Finding True Love:

•How to discover your love personality and how to consciously attract who you REALLY want

• A simple, quick and effective technique for releasing past emotional trauma and blockages so you are fully available to your soulmate

• The secret process that turns your longing into a powerful magnetism for love

• The do’s and don’ts of making a specific list to manifest the right person

• The 4 most attractive qualities to men, and how you can authentically embody them

• They’ll also have plenty of tips for men seeking love as well!


And the best part is.. It’s absolutely FREE!


But make sure to register early and to listen live, because this information won’t remain available for very long! I encourage you to save your virtual seat right now and register for the event today HERE.


Remember . . . there is no charge to attend the event and it’s all from the comfort of your own home.

I look forward to seeing you at The Secrets to Finding True Love Online Event!


Dr. Karen


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Owning Our “Emotional Baggage”

Posted on 10 August 2014 by Dr. Karen

emotional baggage“How I relate to my issue IS the issue.”

Everyone has some sort of emotional baggage. Of course, this looks different for everyone and does not manifest the same in any two people. When I was younger, I always thought that emotional baggage was a bad thing, partly because society had always told me that and partly because it seemed to be the reason why I (and other people) would end relationships.

But emotional baggage doesn’t have to be a “bad thing.”

I once heard the saying “how I relate to my issue is the issue.”


So the question becomes.. how are you going to handle your emotional baggage?

I know.. it sounds dreadful.. even the word “baggage” provokes an image of  heavy suitcase you have to lug around.

But what if I told you it could actually be really… REALLY easy?


This week I am offering a fun webinar on just that – how to address and release our emotional baggage – practically, easily and really quickly (no, it doesn’t have to be “messy!)


It’s happening on Thursday, August 14th at 3 pm Eastern time (if you can’t make it at that time be sure to register for the recording at the link below):


Part of owning our emotional baggage is taking full responsibility for ourselves. It’s about recognizing our ability to determine the quality of our relationships by choosing whether we are willing to deal with our emotional “stuff.” Are you ready to release some of your baggage and move forward? 


I hope you will join me for this fun, interactive webinar, I’ve seen this technique work countless times before for my clients so I’m really excited to share it with you!

Dr. Karen Kan


If you are a new student to Learn it Live then be sure to check out my step by step instructions here:


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How to Clear Out the Obstacles That Are Blocking the Possibility of New Love

Posted on 06 August 2014 by Dr. Karen

Have You Found Yourself Thinking These False Beliefs?

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Let’s be real. Sometimes love can let us down. Past break-ups and relationships can be frustrating, disappointing and downright heartbreaking  (and those romantic movies don’t make it any easier!)



Maybe you are at the point that you find yourself saying these types of things:

“I’m worried that my chance at real, passionate Soulmate love passed me by years ago”
“I’m too old, too overweight, or too broken to be able to find my Soulmate”
“I”m so set in my “single” ways that I don’t even have room in my life for a full-time partner”
“All the “good ones” are taken!”

Well, the good news is… none of those are true.. not even a little bit!

All it takes is a change of mindset to start getting rid of those beliefs that just aren’t serving you or your relationships.

You may have heard of best-selling author Arielle Ford before. She’s been named the Soulmate Expert, and she sent me this fantastic resource that I knew you would find of value.


Arielle is offering a FREE Online Event called “The 3 Keys to Manifesting True Love.” 

In this love-changing seminar, you’ll discover . . 

  • How to clear out the obstacles, such as the memory of past lovers and heartache, that are energetically pushing away any possibility of a soulmate
  • How to experience the love and connection you crave even before you meet your soulmate, which will attract the right person to you almost magically
  • How to forgive yourself for mistakes you’ve made in the past and open your heart to the kind of relationship that will truly make you happy


What do you have to lose besides those -not so great- beliefs?

It’s a totally free event, and even if you miss it, you can catch the recording later.

Just sign up for her free seminar HERE.

I have a good feeling that you will really like what she has to share with you, and who knows what you can discover about yourself and your future Soulmate!


Dr. Karen Kan



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Who Do You Need to Forgive? (Your Past Partners? Yourself?)

Posted on 05 February 2014 by Dr. Karen

The Power of Forgiveness to Heal Your Relationships

One of the biggest obstacles to creating deeply intimate and heartfelt relationships is your ability to forgive.

And I don’t mean just forgiving your partner for the occasional mistake here and there. I mean forgiving those in your past as well, and most importantly, forgiving yourself. Because only when you forgive are you able to go of the anger and resentment that otherwise WILL eventually resurface in again in your future relationships.

And the touching story of Wayne Dyer demonstrates this point beautifully:


Wayner’s father, an abusive alcoholic, had abandoned him at birth and it wasn’t until 10 years after his father’s death that Wayne was even told about his death.

He drove to the grave that day with a level of anger so great, so deep from years of hurt built up, that he went there to literally “pee” on the grave of the father that he held all this resentment towards for 34 years.

What came out of that visit however, completely and forever changed his life. It is one of the most beautiful stories you’ll ever hear.  It shares a message of forgiveness and it’s power to transform that I think is well-worth your time to listen to.


Check out the video HERE.


I highly encourage you to take a few minutes out of your day to watch this video because it causes us to pause and ask really important questions:


Who do you have in YOUR life that you need to forgive?  How would it change your life to forgive and release any anger, resentment, hatred or other negative emotions that you carry, towards BOTH others as well as yourself? (Don’t forget the forgiving yourself part!)



Just click HERE to check out this inspiring video.




Dr. Karen

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Attracting Your Ideal Relationships By… Traveling?

Posted on 10 January 2014 by Dr. Karen

How to Summon the Law of Attraction through the Zen of Solo Travel

We’ve heard plenty of stories of people traveling the world, coming back with a wealth of exciting experiences and stories.. but have you ever considered how solo travel can not only bring a sense of self enlightenment; it can also ignite the law of attraction to opening doors to a new partner even after you return.

Join me on Monday as I interview Michael Jason Sherman, author of THE ZEN OF SOLO TRAVEL: A Journey from Anxiety to Enlightenment.

Join us as Michael shares:

*His self-discovery journey as a solo traveler to Japan, after facing serious dilemmas in his marriage and life, and what awakening experiences he found by leaving everything behind and setting forth into action.


*How the process of solo travel automatically summons the law of attraction in an experiential manner for the traveler – resulting in miraculous experiences during the trip and profound wisdom when they return that allows them to make significant changes in their lives- particularly in their relationships (including finding the courage to leave relationships, or opening the door to attract a new partner).

Here are the details: 

Monday, January 13th at 12 pm EST

Call in at: (818) 514-1190

Or Tune in at:

(If you can’t make it live just click the same link above after the show to listen to the recording)


*Michael Jason Sherman  is also the creator of the Solo Travel Solution, a transformational program that integrates material from his expertise in Imago Relationship Theory, Aikido martial arts and other spiritual and philosophical disciplines.

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The 3 Major Mistakes Almost Everyone Makes During The Breakup of a Relationship . . .

Posted on 03 December 2013 by Dr. Karen

Are You Still Carrying Around Pain From A Past Breakup?

Many of us have been taught that break ups are naturally destructive and can deeply painful experiences often riddled with anger, anguish and blame.


And the worst part is when we live out these beliefs about breakups it can halt our healing process for years on end, thus preventing us from finding real love in our future.


While this isn’t something we like to talk about.. it’s happens to all us at some point.. and its about time we talk about how it can be healing process, rather than a damaging one!


That’s why I wanted to share with you a free seminar that my friend and love expert Katherine Woodward Thomas is now offering called “The Art of Conscious Completion


Join Katherine to explore:

  • The real reason feelings of rage, despair, betrayal and devastation are often triggered during a breakup . . .
  • The 3 major mistakes people make time and time again in breakups
  • How to hold and harness the energy of big emotions and transform them from being a destructive force to being a force for positive change in your life
  • How to release blame and shame in order to reclaim your power
  • How to show up in your life in ways that will bring healing to you and everyone who is impacted by your separation
  • And so much more


Yes it is possible to  release the pain that often dwells after a relationship (even years afterwards!), and begin to heal your wounds, and move forward with your life.


Register for this free seminar “Art of Conscious Completion” happening on Wednesday, December 4th
5pm Pacific • 7pm Central • 8pm Eastern


Listen LIVE and have full access to
download the recording at any time.


(Even if you can’t listen live, make sure to sign up so Katherine can send you the recording afterwards.)

I highly suggest taking advantage of this amazing resource. Even if you haven’t been in a breakup recently, you would be surprised how many old wounds you may still be carrying around from a past bad breakup experience.

I look forward to “seeing you” then! 

Dr. Karen

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How to Let Go of Your Emotional Baggage

Posted on 18 September 2013 by Dr. Karen

Tomorrow I’m teaching you how to release trapped emotions with The Emotion Code

Tomorrow I am offering one of my most popular classes: How to Release Trapped Emotion. In this FREE webinar I will personally be showing you how to use the Emotion Code technique to release past trapped emotions that are likely causing you pain, illness and recurring problems in your current relationships.


I will be taking volunteers for this call, so if you can make it live, you have a chance to receive some free treatment on the call to address your problems with this technique (more details will be given on the call).


*If you can’t make it live, register anyways to gain access to unlimited recording replay.


Here are the details:

When: Tomorrow, Thursday, Sept 19 at 3:00 pm EDT


(if you’ve never used, please register by creating a username and password or signing in with your facebook account).


“See you” then!


Dr. Karen



If you have any questions please feel free to contact my assistant at


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Can what you eat interfere with your Manifesting?

Posted on 04 September 2013 by Dr. Karen

TOMORROW: What You Didn’t Know About The Law of Attraction

It’s all about energy. Allowing your energy to drain away because you spend too much time on your computer, or eat low-energy foods affects your ability to harness the Law of Attraction.

Less energy= Less attractiveness.

It’s these small, yet essential details that are often overlooked when talking about The Law of Attraction.

That’s why I am offering a Learning The Law of Attraction course tomorrow to cover the left out pieces of the puzzle that you may have been missing.

Tomorrow’s Class we will be focusing on Harnessing The Law of Attraction including:

  1. The simple 5 minute exercise to harness the law of attraction
  2. the first 3 crucial steps you have to take before manifesting anything
  3. how to know if your manifestation is really working

I encourage you to join me for this fun and exciting class!


The register for the class go to:

(If this is your first time visiting, you can sign in by creating a new username and password or sign in via facebook)

The class will be recorded, so if you can’t make it live, you can listen to it as much as you’d like afterwards!

See you tomorrow!

Dr. Karen Kan



This is the 2nd of 6 classes that I am offering as part of my Fast Track Your Healing Program, so be sure to check out my other class offerings at:

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Ask Dr. Karen: Live This Monday

Posted on 30 August 2013 by Dr. Karen

Join Me To Have Your Relationship Questions Answered

Fostering great relationships can take a lot of know-how. From learning how to “fight fair” in seasoned relationships, to  navigating the tricky unknown territory of new relationships, I know from personal experience how learning from personal “trial and error” can be exhausting and nerve racking!

That’s why I have dedicated the first Monday of every month to a live Q&A session with me on my radio show, where you will have the opportunity to ask me ANY question you have about relationships.

That’s right ANY question: even the touchy subjects like sex, money, monogamy.. you name it! (If you feel uncomfortable having your voice on the air, I welcome you to post or send a private message to my Law of Attraction in Love Facebook Page HERE.)

Here are the details:

Monday, September 2nd, 12 noon Eastern New York Time

Option 1: To listen through the internet, go to where you can find your time zone as well.

Option 2: To listen by phone, call 818-514-1190. If you’d like to ask a question “live” on the show, just hit “1” on your dial pad so I can see your hand is up. When the time comes, I will unmute you so you can chat with us.

I’m looking forward to having you join me for the show! And just in case you can’t make it, it will be recorded and available immediately. Just click the link above to listen to the archives.

Dr. Karen

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