Hello there!

Hey, before I tell you about getting “unstuck”, I have some good news for you. I’m going to have some fantastic information to share with you on my radio show which has been renamed the Dr. Karen Kan radio show. Why did I rename my show? Well, my show started out with supporting singles on their mission to find their soul mate. In the process, I realized that every facet of someone’s life is affecting their ability to manifest the love they want and desire. So with that in mind, I decided to expand my radio show to include health, energy healing and abundance. Everything is connected right?

I’m excited to share with you the next show I’m going to be doing on Monday May 14th (details below):

There are hundreds of books, seminars, etc all talking about how to create our reality. Yet millions of people are frustrated because they are not achieving their goals. At first they had some modest success, but now are stuck. My guest, author and speaker, Gary Spinell, shares his valuable insights on WHY and HOW people get stuck. His latest book, Beyond Intent also teaches people how to get unstuck with a different perspective and how, with some additional unique spiritual and practical information, they can cross the threshold to their dreams!

Gary Spinell has spent over 25 years examining why some people achieve success consistently while others often struggle. Gary is becoming a sought after speaker who enjoys working with groups that are in-transition, those looking for personal growth and corporations looking for a new perspective to succeed in today’s competitive environment.

Here’s how you can listen in on the show:

Monday May 14, 2012 at 12 noon EDT
Go to www.blogtalkradio.com/drkaren to listen online.
(www.timeanddate.com to find your time zone)
To Listen by Phone: 818-518-1190
To raise your hand, dial “1″ at anytime and when we have a moment, we’ll un-mute you so you can ask a question of either of us!

Looking forward to being with you on the show! Oh, and just in case you can’t make it, it will be archived on the same website and you’ll be able to listen to it later.

Blessings,

Dr. Karen Kan
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Dear Dr. Karen,

I have been married to my husband for 20 years and we have children. Even before we were married, he cheated on me. And he has time and time again! He lies and gets very defensive when I confront him, but eventually the truth comes out. I’ve left him seven times but I always go back. I’ve asked him to leave several times as well, but he always comes begging me to take him back.

And I always take him back because I love him so much. I still love him. I am tired of being hurt by him, but I remain suspicious that he’s seeing someone else behind my back. This way of life has tampered with my self-esteem and in search of solutions I have tried everything.

I now have come across the Law of Attraction but my doubts are still there: does he really love me and want to be with me? and can a situation like this change using the Law of Attraction? Please help!

Nina

Dear Nina,

Thanks for your honest letter. I hope my answer will be helpful to you. But first, I have a question for you?

What are you expecting the Law of Attraction to do for you?

Are you expecting it to magically change your husband so that he isn’t the “cheating type” any longer? Because if that is the case, then I can tell you very easily that the Law of Attraction doesn’t work this way. We can’t use the Law of Attraction to change other people against their free will.

However, what you CAN use the Law of Attraction for is to create happiness for yourself. Whether your husband is part of that ultimate happiness is up to you and the Universe to co-create together. Your Law of Attraction “wish” statement could be something like:

I am thoroughly enjoying a fulfilling romantic relationship with my soulmate.

Sometimes we fool ourselves in thinking we truly love someone when we only truly love certain parts, or aspects, of them. What I mean by this is that you seem to enjoy enough aspects of your spouse to keep him around. But there are aspects of him that you don’t like so you aren’t truly happy. Isn’t that right?

So here’s the truth of the matter:

• the highest form of love means being able to accept who our lovers are without judgment or expectation, but that doesn’t mean that you always like or enjoy what they are doing. There is a difference.
• you can’t change another person. You don’t have that kind of control. You can only change yourself and your reactions to situations. When you can change yourself and be fully responsible for your own happiness, then you’ll see the relationship shift remarkably.

So you have a couple of very simple choices here Nina. It is high time you took 100% responsibility for your experiences. He is not responsible for your unhappiness, you are. I don’t mean to sound harsh, but you’ve been on this yo-yo ride for over 20 years now. When will you decide to change your experience? When will you realize that what you’ve been doing all these years doesn’t work?

Here are some choices:

You can choose to accept that your husband “cheats”,  and in that acceptance, you can enjoy him as much as possible when he’s around, and give up trying to change or criticize him for not being who you think he should be (the equivalent of telling a bear that it should acting like an antelope)

Do something drastically different for a change maybe. For example,  study books on open marriages or polyamory and see if any of those resonate with either of you. If “cheating” was genetic, like diabetes, would you be as judgmental of it? Probably not. I’m not saying it is, but what if it was?

Just trying to open minds here…

How about this new thought pattern: Can you entertain the possibility that your husband loving other people in no way diminishes his love for you? Does a candle flame diminish when it lights another candle? Love is light. Think about that.

I’m bringing this up because we’ve been unconsciously indoctrinated in the concept that the ONLY way a relationship can be successful is through monogamy. Anytime there is an absolute rule, we all should be questioning it’s validity, because somewhere, sometime, long ago, someone made that rule in order to control others.

Remember, it wasn’t long ago when women and children were considered a man’s property. And in some parts of the world, they still are (sigh!).

So Nina, in summary, you can either change your perspective (by letting go of victim-hood, judgment or expectations) or change your situation by leaving, but you can’t change him. Got it? Hope so.

So if you’re not willing to leave because having him around is BETTER than not having him around, then just admit to yourself that you’ve CHOSEN this relationship in its current form and stop being the victim. You’re not the victim here. You’re choosing this. When you can be compassionate with yourself about choosing this relationship, then you can let go of all the judgment of how imperfect it is and just ENJOY your husband.

If these steps seem too difficult for you, as I imagine they might be, I suggest that you book yourself into seeing a relationship coach or counselor and get some support. We all need support for our spiritual and personal growth, so I encourage you to be courageous and find an expert that you resonate with.

In the meantime, I highly recommend you pick up a copy of Neale Donald Walsch’s book on Relationships and read it over and over again:

You can also listen to the interview I did with him HERE.

I believe in you Nina. Thanks for helping others with your question.

Blessings,

Dr. Karen Kan
P.S. Anyone reading this post, feel free to comment.

First of all, if you submitted a question for Tuesday night’s Soulmate Summit Telecoaching call with me, thank you! We got through as many as we could. Special thanks to Sarah who was part of the live coaching – we had a lot of fun together first fielding her Soulmate manifesting questions and then getting her feedback on my answers to the others.

The topics we covered were:

• How do we “detach” from our desired outcome?
• What do we do when we feel anxious about “when” our soulmate is coming?
• How to handle feelings from past loves so that they don’t interfere with our manifesting.
• Different energy psychology techniques to neutralize negative emotions
• How to “red flag” some obstacles that you may have that prevent your manifestations from materializing.
• How should we handle loving someone who doesn’t love us back?

If you’d like to listen to the call, here is the page where it’s posted:
http://lawofattractioninlove.com/soulmatesummit/

If you enjoyed this call and feel you’d like to participate if we have some more like this, please let me know by filling out the comments on the bottom of this blog.

Blessings,
Dr. Karen Kan

Wow! What a busy month. And there is more to come. I am so excited to bring you the most amazing teachers in the field of relationships and Law of Attraction.

Monday, I’ve added an extra Law of Attraction in Love radio show segment called Secrets of Happy Couples. My colleague Kim Olver has written an amazing book documenting the common threads that all happy couples seem to have. She interviewed relationship experts, including me, as well as conducting her own research on “real” happy couples.

Whether you’re single or already in a relationship that could use a “boost”, I feel that Kim Olver’s book is one of those special books that will be known a must-read book for anyone looking to have a happy fruitful relationship. It was written to help people in committed relationships find happiness within themselves and with each other. It is the second in the InsideOut Empowerment Series.

So join me Monday as I interview Kim Olver. Details are below:

January 31, Monday, 12 NN EST or 9 AM PST

Call in number: (347) 945-6313 and then punch in “1” so I will see you in the moderator queue (so I can un-mute your line)

The show will be posted on www.blogtalkradio.com/drkaren, and you can use/download this afterwards

Blessings,
Dr. Karen Kan

PS there are a few days left for our eBook special! Purchase my Creating Your Fairytale Love Life eBook and receive special bonuses: see the details on our special secret link: www.lawofattractioninlove.com/holiday. The special is until January 31st.

PPS Stay tuned! I have a very important announcement on an upcoming free course for singles who wish to attract their soulmates!

Whooops! If you listened live to the Law of Attraction in Love radio link to show page show to listen to my interview with author and transformational leader, Marci Shimoff, about Love for No Reason, I apologize if you experienced the show cutting off early.

Here’s the good news. I believe we got it all on the archive recordings!

So go here and download the archive show.

Enjoy! Blessings,
Dr. Karen Kan

P.S. Until January 31st, we’ve extended our holiday eBook bonus to include an extra eBook if you purchase my eBook, Creating Your Fairytale Love Life! Go to our secret page for more details: www.LawofAttractioninLove.com/holiday

This Monday I’m excited to have my friend and colleague, Marci Shimoff on the Law of Attraction in Love Radio show. Marci’s latest book, Love For No Reason: 7 Steps to Creating a Life of Unconditional Love currently holds the #1 spot in Amazon’s best seller’s rank for Love & Romance.

Marci will talk about how we shut down our hearts by not feeling our feelings and the four main ways we do that. People are going through such challenging times; they’re losing their jobs, they have financial problems. How can we focus on love in the midst of such challenges?

Here are the details:

January 24, Monday, 12 NN EST or 9 AM PST
Call in number: (347) 945-6313 and then punch in “1” so Dr. Karen will see you in the moderator queue (so she can un-mute your line)

The show will be posted on www.blogtalkradio.com/drkaren, and you can use/download this afterwards

More on Marci:

Marci Shimoff (Shy-Moff) is a #1 New York Times bestselling author and a world-renowned transformation teacher. As an expert on happiness, success, and unconditional love, Marci has inspired millions of people around the globe, sharing her breakthrough methods for personal fulfillment and professional success. Her newest book, Love for No Reason: 7 Steps to Creating a Life of Unconditional Love is brand new out right now. In it, Marci introduces a revolutionary program to live in a deep and lasting state of love and shows you how to access that at any time and in any circumstance.

Marci’s other books include the runaway bestseller, Happy for No Reason: 7 Steps to Being Happy from the Inside Out and six titles in the phenomenally successful Chicken Soup for the Woman’s Soul series. Her books have sold more than 14 million copies worldwide in 33 languages, have topped all of the major bestseller lists, and have been on the New York Times bestseller list for a total of 118 weeks. Marci is one of the bestselling female nonfiction authors of all time.

Marci is the also the host of the national PBS television special called Happy for No Reason. In addition, she’s a featured teacher in the international film and book sensation, The Secret. Marci is a professional speaker and a leading expert on happiness, success, and unconditional love. She is dedicated to helping people live more empowered and joy-filled lives.

You can check out her book at http://www.thelovebook.com

On Monday January 10th, I have the great pleasure of interviewing Penney Peirce, who is a respected and gifted intuitive empath with deep psychological understanding, visionary ability, and business sense. She is one of the early pioneers in the intuition development movement, having worked since 1977 with organizations like the San Francisco-based Center for Applied Intuition, The Institute for the Study of Conscious Evolution, and The Intuition Network.

My intuition told me to read her book, Frequency because of my own interests in Law of Attraction and vibrational energy. Wow! It was one of the most amazing books I’ve read this decade!

Penney explains clearly and gracefully how we are all going through a marked acceleration of frequencies (gee, have you witnessed any chaos in our lives lately? If not, you might be living under a rock! Just kidding… and why that is happening.

She also explains how we can nurture what she calls our Home Frequency. Guess what? Emanating your home frequency automatically starts “attracting” your greatest good to your life, including the love partner of your dreams!

I’ll be asking her to share what is going on energetically with “troubled” relationships…that clarity can set you free. It did for me in giving me a greater understanding and compassion with everyone in my life.

So make sure you tune in Monday at 12 noon EST at www.blogtalkradio.com/drkaren. If you can’t make it, just download the free archive of the call at a later time at www.blogtalkradio.com/drkaren.

Here is the information if you want to call in:

January 10, Monday, 12 NN EST or 9 AM PST
Call in number: (347) 945-6313 and then punch in “1” so Dr. Karen will see you in the moderator queue (so she can un-mute your line)
The show will be posted on www.blogtalkradio.com/drkaren, and you can use/download this afterwards

Here’s more about Penney:

A popular author, lecturer, counselor, and trainer, Penney specializes in intuition and sensitivity development, “skillful perception,” personal energy and frequency training, dreamwork, and future trends. She travels widely, working throughout the US, Japan, South Africa, and Europe as an advisor to business executives, scientists, psychologists, other consultants and trainers, and those on a spiritual path. She has counseled tens of thousands of people worldwide about life and business direction, and the fulfillment of destiny.

Feel free to get some questions ready for Penney on the call. Talk to you then!

Blessings,
Dr. Karen

Last week I told you about the launch of a piece of software that can “charge” your water with your intentions in a way that is very stable and very strong. When you drink this water, it will amplify your ability to manifest your deepest desires. It even has checks and balances in the program so you can only manifest what is in your highest and greatest good.

Hard to believe eh?

Well, given that I LOVE science and I’m a technie, I wanted to know more about it, so I called up the inventor, Peter Schenk, and he agreed to do an interview with me!

If this is all new to you and you don’t know what I’m talking about here’s the link with more information on the program:

http://lawofattractioninlove.com/thesourxepage

So here’s what I want from you: please post a comment BELOW with your questions for Peter that I can ask when I interview him.

I need your questions no later than this Saturday!

Examples:

1. Can you charge the water with more than one intention at a time?
2. If you put flavorings in the water does it cancel out the effects?
3. Do you have to use positive intention statements or can you use negative ones and it will still work eg. My shoulder pain is gone vs. My shoulder feels comfortable and healthy
4. Do you have to watch the computer screen or can you walk away from it when it is charging the water?
5. How can this POSSIBLY work?

Thanks in advance for your questions! Since this is a taped interview we cannot take live question which is why I’m asking you now what you’d like to ask?

Blessings,
Dr. Karen

If you’re like many of my coaching clients, you’ve probably have experienced some degree of pain in your romantic relationships. Not only that, the pain from our familial relationships have a long-lasting impact on us in that we, through the Law of Attraction, continue to experience “re-runs” of the emotional issues we have subconsciously repressed through our childhood.

If you’ve purchased my eBook, Creating Your Fairytale Love Life, you may have done some work on clearing some of this “old” emotional baggage through an energy psychology technique called EFT.

Another energy psychology tool I’ve been introduced to recently is called TAT, Tapas Acupressure Technique. Instead of tapping on your acupuncture points, the TAT method includes holding your acupressure points during a clearing process where you put your attention on a set of specific statements.

If you’ve tried EFT and it hasn’t worked for you, or you want to learn something new (like me!), you might want to join me on Monday November 15th for my Law of Attraction in Love Blog Talk Radio Show, as I interview TAT creator, acupuncturist Tapas Fleming. Tapas has helped thousands of people with her technique who have suffered from various issues including phobias, anxiety, excess weight, trauma from abuse and rape, financial stress, to name a few.

After facilitating personal growth for many years, Tapas Fleming became interested in physical and energetic healing. She became a Licensed Acupuncturist and began her practice in 1987, specializing in the treatment of allergies. Searching for a simple, effective treatment, she developed TAT in 1993. Tapas soon realized that in addition to relieving her patients’ allergic reactions, TAT was clearing the effects of their past stressful or traumatic experiences in an easy, gentle way. Now one of the most celebrated leaders in energy psychology, Tapas has taught TAT to hundreds of thousands of enthusiastic people worldwide. She always finds it a great pleasure to teach TAT because it is so empowering and liberating and supports people in creating a vibrant, healthy life full of meaning and fulfillment. Tapas lives in Torrance, CA where she has a private practice.

Here are the details:

Monday November 15 at 12 noon EST
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www.blogtalkradio.com/drkaren

Call in number: (347) 945-6313
Hit “1″ if you’d like me to see your “hand up” to ask a question

Feel free to ask a question during the show! If you can’t make it live, you can always listen or download the recording anytime at www.blogtalkradio.com/drkaren.

Enjoy!

Blessings,
Dr. Karen
www.LawofAttractioninLove.com

It’s Radio Show Monday this September 13, and I am excited have Dr. Eldon Taylor back on the show!

Eldon Taylor, Ph.D., is a world renowned author, dynamic speaker, former criminalist and one of the world’s foremost experts on preconscious information processing, and is also the author of more than three hundred InnerTalk® personal empowerment audio and video programs and his work has been published in the likes of Newsweek and Annals of Psychotherapy. One of his renowned books, Mind Programming, is a riveting expose on the plethora of research that has been carried out simply to discover ways to control your every thought and desire.

On this show, Dr. Taylor will discuss how we are being “brainwashed” by others and will share examples of this “brainwashing” in advertising. He will also cite his favorite “tools” from the chapter on Practical Metaphysics, how the subliminal Inner Talk CDs benefit those who use it for at least one hour a day and will discuss his newest release/book What Does It Mean?

Here are the details:

Monday September 13, 2010 at 12 noon EST
www.timezoneconverter.com
www.blogtalkradio.com/drkaren

Call in number: 347-945-6313

Hit “1″ if you’d like me to see your “hand up” to ask a question

The show will be broadcast live at www.blogtalkradio.com/drkaren. Anyone can download the show free of charge afterwards in case you missed it.

Blessings,

Dr. Karen Kan

www.LawofAttractioninLove.com