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What do I do during the “detachment” phase of manifesting?

Posted on 20 December 2010 by Dr. Karen

Hi Dr. Karen

Ive done a lot of research into the Law of Attraction. I’m seriously pursuing a soul mate. I did the laundry list & came up with my list of wants. There was 26 :) .. The next phase would be manifestation & detachment.

What do I do during this detachment phase??.. Do I keep visualizing my wants or how do I go about it??.. Please help because that’s the part I don’t understand.

Thank you,

Christina

Dear Christina,

Congrats for making your clear list of “who” you would like to attract into your love life! You’re right about detachment – it is an important step. I think the book I just finished reading, Manifesting Change by Mike Dooley says it best. Like in my Creating Your Fairytale Love Life eBook, you first create your wish list and use that to generate the “feeling” of already having manifested your dreams.

Then you detach emotionally from needing your dream to come true the way you think it should, but instead become open to something even better coming along. The Universe, when given plenty of wiggle room, will always find the best, most perfect and entertaining ways of getting you what you really want.

So in the detachment phase, your job is to, as Mike says, move in the general direction of your dreams. To give you a concrete example. If my dream is to become the best adult pairs figure skater in the world, moving in the general direction of my dreams means putting the time into to training and getting good coaching.

So to manifest your ideal partner, what are you doing to move in the general direction of your dreams? Here’s the trick, you don’t have to be moving in the “right” direction…you just have to be moving. Mike uses a great analogy in his book. When you use a GPS device in your car, you first need to input the destination right?

What happens if you don’t move? Yup, nothing.

What if you move in the opposite direction by mistake? The GPS will steer you towards the final destination and eventually you’ll make it there despite the number of detours you may take.

So you need to decide what you can do to move towards your dream. Is it cleaning out your closets so that your dream partner’s “stuff” can fit in them? Is it getting more “social” and taking a class you’ve always been interested in? Is it getting more fit so you feel good and strong in your body (and thus your vibration will be strong)?

Get a copy of Mike’s newest book if you’ve already read mine. It is a perfect compliment.

I believe in you. Let me know if this has been helpful by commenting below.

Blessings,

Dr. Karen

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Good News! Free Think and Grow Rich Book still available

Posted on 19 October 2010 by Dr. Karen

I’m really surprised, but apparently you can still get a F-ree hard copy of the “Law of Attraction” classic, Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill. I’m told that this will go on for at least October 31st. If I were you, I’d get it now…

Get the details here:
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Vic and Lisa Johnson are doing this crazy marketing test where they’re giving away Napoleon Hill’s “Think & Grow Rich.” I’m helping them with their big giveaway and wanted to make sure you got your copy before they take this offer down.

Feel f-ree to pass this on to friends. They can get one too if they act right away. This is one of my highly recommended books. Why? Because it is all about our mind, our attitudes and how that determines what we manifest in our lives.

Tell us where to send it, and we’ll send you the number one success book of all time.

Blessings,

Dr. Karen

P.S. Vic and Lisa are actually shipping these so you need to give them your address before they run out. Details here:
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Can your thoughts of “Where is he?” prevent you from manifesting?

Posted on 12 October 2010 by Dr. Karen

Dear Dr. Karen,

Hello, I noticed in one of your newsletters that it took about twelve months to manifest your soulmate. You stated that during this duration you keep asking “Where is he?”

I thought that if you think this thought (“where is he?”) too much that your soulmate does not manifest, however in your case it still did. So is it okay to think these things without hindering the process of manifesting your soulmate?

Marianna

Dear Marianna,

Great question.

Many of us had the misunderstanding that if you allow yourself to think “negative” or non-supportive thoughts, that it would automatically prevent your intentions from manifesting. Because of this misunderstanding, thousands of people got “upset” whenever they noticed a negative thought or an unhappy feeling.

I’m here to clear the air about this misunderstanding. Most of us, even monks and spiritual masters, cannot control what thoughts pop up in our minds most of the time. Thoughts have a way of mysteriously popping up. In other words, your subconscious is not within your conscious control!

The difference between spiritual masters and us “regular” folks is that they’ve spent years training their minds not to give negative thoughts or feelings any ENERGY. It isn’t so bad to have impatient or negative thoughts. It is what you do with them that counts. When they come, do you REACT to them? Or can you just observe them and let them float away, like a leaf floating on a stream?

Our reaction to our thoughts is the ENERGY I’m talking about. The Law of Attraction works on what energy you are putting out. It is completely normal during the course of learning how to manifest something new that everyone entertains doubts. But when those doubts come, do you let it stop you from trusting the process or moving forward?

I believe that the reason I was “able” to manifest my dream partner despite my thoughts of “Why isn’t he here yet?” was that I had a STRONGER belief underneath it that knew that if other people could do it, I could too. I put MORE energy into the positive, than I did into the negative or non-supportive thoughts.

Think of it as a scale. I had much more energy (weight) on the positive side than the negative, but on occasion, the negative side would be heavier…but it didn’t last long.

Things in life aren’t perfect. The stronger energy in the “positive” drew teachers and coaches and books to me to show me how to expand beyond my limited thinking.

The Universe even “tipped” me off after I met James that he was the “one” I was asking for. You see, I didn’t “see” him as my perfect partner. He didn’t seem to match my criteria. I wanted a figure skater. I wasn’t expecting a younger man. But a friend synchronistically told me about a movie that came out called Cutting Edge 2 where a figure skater manifests her dream skating partner who happens to be an aggressive inline skater and surfer (exactly what James, my partner, was when I met him!).

So you see, you don’t have to be dismayed or react at all to your questioning “Where is he?” Just acknowledge the thought, then remind yourself that The Universe knows the quickest, fastest and best way to get that person to you. And if that person you wish is not an energetic match to who you are right now, you have some GROWING work to do!

Don’t worry. You’ll be given the opportunity to grow if you just stay open to receiving. Synchronicities happen all the time. Let the Law of Attraction work for you in love by staying open and quickly shifting your unsupportive thoughts to ones that work better for you.

I believe in you. If you get stuck, we can always do one-on-one coaching…

Blessings,
Dr. Karen
www.LawofAttractioninLove.com

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Free Online Seminar – Mind, Meaning and Mysteries

Posted on 21 September 2010 by Dr. Karen

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Blessings,

Dr. Karen Kan
www.LawofAttractioninLove.com
P.S. If you haven’t listened to my radio interview (Sept 13th) with Eldon about Mind Programming, you’ll want to…you can listen to the archive free at www.blogtalkradio.com/drkaren. Enjoy!

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What You Most Fear, You Attract

Posted on 09 July 2010 by Dr. Karen

I got an email from a close family member today. He was quite dejected because a computer virus had attacked his desktop computer…AGAIN. Both he and his wife are extremely careful not to download or click on links that look suspicious in their emails. They immediate erase anything in their email box that looks like forwarded emails from friends and family…just in case there is a virus. They bought sophisticated anti-virus software. They refuse to do FaceBook, MySpace or similar social networking because of the reports of identity theft etc. They won’t even open eCards that family members have sent them.

And yet, despite all the precautionary measures, this is not the first time that viruses have ruined his computer. On a number of occasions, both their computers have been attacked. How could it be that people who are so careful about avoiding viruses have experienced multiple attacks on their computers?

Well, I’m here to give you one perspective.

It is their fear of those attacks that attracts those experiences.

The Law of Attraction states that what you focus on grows. Now that doesn’t mean being naïve and not protecting your computer (in this case) from viruses, but notice the amount of ENERGY spent in the vibration of FEAR. In contrast, many people do tons of work on the internet – downloading, uploading, buying online, doing Facebook, Twitter etc. – in fact it is almost a requirement in successful business these days.

Why is it you think that they don’t get “attacked” by viruses to the degree my family members have?

It is because the attacks aren’t their focus. They do what is necessary to avoid viruses, but then they forget about it. They don’t constantly worry about getting attacked (like my family members do). They don’t talk about virus attacks. They don’t get angry, hyper, anxious when others may be less careful about virus protection. In fact, their focus is on the positive side of computing, so to speak – the fun they have connecting with others, learning new things etc. Instead of being fearful of new technology, they are thrilled with it.

Here’s a Law of Attraction rule: to the degree that you are afraid of something, it will come charging at you. So, on a scale of 1 to 10, if you are REALLY afraid of something happening, 8-10 out of 10, your vibration is so STRONG that you literally magnetize it to you. The bigger the emotion, the more frequent the emotion, the faster and stronger it comes.

If you are AFRAID of losing someone’s love instead of focusing on appreciating the love you do have today, you’ll risk losing it! If you’re afraid your partner will cheat on you, you can bet he/she probably will. If you’re afraid of being alone the rest of your life and never finding the love of your life…guess what? You might be!

Now that you know that, what can you do?

You can USE this rule/law to your advantage. When you experience fear, make an intention to let go of it. You can change your environment to minimize risk (i.e. don’t be naïve), but then let go of the fear once you’ve addressed the issue. When it rears its ugly head, remind yourself that you need to be putting a GREATER energetic force in the opposite direction to attract what you DO want rather than what you DON’T want. Go from fear to appreciation. Go from fear to appreciation and gratefulness.

You can do a “thought-switching” technique.

When the fear comes up, learn to literally “change channels”. You can even get humorous with your mind (the yogis call it your “monkey mind”). You can tell the negative thought, “Ah, thanks for sharing…I’ll cancel/pass” and then immediately move onto a different more empowering thought and emotion.

Be careful not to get caught up in other people’s fear. If their vibration of fear is greater and stronger than your positive vibration, you can “entrain” to their lower wavelength. Sometimes the most difficult situation to stay positive iswithin your own family of origin. Families have a way of pushing your buttons! It reminds me of the time my sister’s family was visiting with my parents. My parents were considerably fearful of the safety of their home while away. Sure enough, when my sister’s family returned home, they discovered they were robbed. The friend watching the home forgot to turn on the alarm one evening and their DVD movies were stolen.

But even if you’re experiencing a situation that you don’t want (being robbed for example), there is ALWAYS a silver lining if you’re looking for it. Like my teacher Eldon Taylor loves to say,

“I can’t WAIT to see what good comes of this!”

I encourage you to memorize this sage attitude-shifting thought and use it whenever “negative” things happen to you!

What was the silver lining (the gift) to my sister’s robbery?

Of the DVD’s the thieves stole, there were only three they didn’t steal. One of the DVD’s they didn’t steal was the movie, The Secret. Because they didn’t have any of their other movies, my sister, who had had the DVD for a year, finally decided to watch it. She liked The Secret and tried out the Law of Attraction for herself…and voila! She found out it works and she called me to tell me!

That was the gift.

So your homework is to become aware of how you’re attracting what you’re attracting and continually monitor and shift your focus to empowering thoughts and emotions.

Blessings,

Dr. Karen Kan

PS. I’m really loving my InnerTalk CD’s by Eldon Taylor…a way of programming the subconscious mind to automatically rewire it to positive thoughts. If you’re interested in them, you can check them out by clicking the banner below. My favorites are: Ending Self-destructive patterns, End Co-dependency, Millionaire Orbit, Money Management, Accelerated Healing and Well-Being (my patients love the music on this one), and Enthusiastic and Motivated (my partner tends to do a lot of housework whenever I play this one…he he)

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Radio Show Monday: Interview with Marcy Neumann

Posted on 10 June 2010 by Dr. Karen

For this month’s LOAIL Radio Show, I will be interviewing Marcy Neumann, creator of Heartlites Incorporated. Marcy is a visionary with the ability to teach people of all ages and genders how to hone their Law of Attraction success and achieve the manifestation success they are looking to enjoy. She has taken the “what now” question expressed by so many and created ‘right here, right now’ tools for bringing it all together. Marcy has created a product for every aspect of life needing improvement, whether that be love, relationships, money or health. Her expertise is in easy application that brings immediate change inspiring hope and belief that we truly can be co-creators of a powerful life!

Just a few short years ago Marcy experienced the beginnings of physical, mental and emotional’ shut-down’ and made the very difficult and painful decision to leave everything that had defined her for about 30 years in order to re-group and tend to the real nature of her dis-ease process. What should have been a period of exacerbation of symptoms during this very stressful time became instead a time of miraculous healing. In fact, Marcy went from just surviving to thriving and in 3 short years created Heartlites Inc., a manufacturing company of spiritual/personal development products based on the powerful methods she developed during this time. She now helps thousands of people heal their lives too with her products and programs.

Marcy brings the LOA into Action. It is her belief that experiential reinforcement is key to learning and creating new skills, perspectives and habits. Marcy’s extensive experience, eclectic background and keen intuitive skills helps people to harness their energy for sure success and teaches them easy, practical tools for everyday use.

Here are the details for the upcoming show:

Monday June 14, 2010 at 12 noon EST
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Call in number: 347-945-6313

Hit “1″ if you’d like me to see your “hand up” to ask a question

The show will be broadcast live at www.blogtalkradio.com/drkaren. Anyone can download the show free of charge afterwards in case you missed it.

Blessings,
Dr. Karen Kan
www.LawofAttractioninLove.com

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Will Using Visualization Make Him More Romantic?

Posted on 06 June 2010 by Dr. Karen

Dr. Karen,

I got my boyfriend through law of attraction, and had him exactly the way I wanted him to be, he is handsome, intelligent, smart, rich and responsible. But he is not that romantic and isn’t that enthusiastic towards our relationship and he takes it for granted.

So is it possible through the law of attraction to see these very new things in him that he has never done before to me? My question is – Is it possible to add some new behaviors in your partner just by visualizing it?

Tia

Dear Tia,

In my experience, visualizing what you want is just PART of the manifesting process. If you’ve read my Creating Your Fairytale Love Life eBook, you’ll remember that there are approximately seven steps to the manifesting process. What I’ll share here is complimentary to what I wrote in the book, so I won’t repeat what’s in the book.

It is more than possible through the Law of Attraction to see these “new” behaviors in your relationship. However, it is going to take some effort and discipline on your part to co-create this. This isn’t about him changing as much as it is about you changing. Really.

Visualization is a powerful tool if you can feel it as a “whole body” experience. Imagine ideal (and believable) situations where you are both enjoying the romance of the moment and how that feels in your body. Do the exercise daily. Your partner may notice a mysterious twinkle in your eye afterwards if you’re practicing this successfully. The power of visualizations depends on repetition AND being able to feel it in your body (not just thinking about it in your mind).

Visualizing is just one of many manifesting tools. A crucial step in harnessing the Law of Attraction is consistent ACTION. In other words, visualization without relevant action is not very useful. Here is what I recommend you do next.

Look really hard for behaviors in your partner that you enjoy and like and make sure you give him appreciation for them, each and every time. This means homework on your part. Make it a daily exercise for at least thirty days (so it becomes a habit) to look for things you appreciate about your partner and tell him about it.

Better yet, don’t just tell him your appreciation verbally. Tell him with your body. Melt your body into his, look into his eyes and glow with loving appreciation for those “little” things he does to show his love for you, even if you don’t consider them “romantic”.

Our partners are our mirrors. If you feel he’s been taking you for granted, you’re probably doing the same in his perception, even if it is unconsciously. Look for ways you have been taking him for granted and start correcting your behavior so that you start giving him the recognition YOU’D like to receive yourself.

Next exercise: start doing romantic things for yourself and for him. Bring out your “Goddess”. For example, get yourself a bouquet flowers and if he asks you why, just tell him you did it because it makes you feel feminine and romantic (only if that is true, of course). Take a bath by candlelight and ask him to join you. Start a tickle fight on the couch. Watch a romantic movie then “attack him” with loving kisses afterwards.

Take belly dancing classes and start “practicing” all over the house in your coin skirt, nudging him with your hips as you shimmy by. Offer a foot rub. Leave sticky notes in odd places around the house (like inside the bathroom cabinet) that say, “I love you!” or “I love your butt!” etc.

I want you to have fun with this. If any of these suggestions make you feel uncomfortable….GOOD! You have room to grow!

So let us know what happens!

If anyone reading this blog post has any other suggestions for Tia, please share them by posting a comment to this blog.

Dr. Karen Kan
www.lawofattractioninlove.com

P.S. Are you stuck at all? Do you think you could use some coaching? If you’re interested group tele-coaching, let me know now as I’m forming a coaching group soon. Click here for more information.

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Dear Dr. Karen: Why Did My Blissful Law of Attraction Relationship Turn Sour?

Posted on 02 April 2010 by Dr. Karen

Hi Dr. Karen,

About 3 years ago I began learning about the Law of Attraction. Single at the time, I immediately made a list of the qualities I desired in a partner and began imagining meeting him. It worked VERY quickly: in 10 days I’d met who I thought was The One. The first year or so was blissful, but I gradually realized that we had MAJOR differences and incompatibilities. Now, 2.5 years into the relationship, our couple is seriously in danger of breaking apart and it has become clear to me that this is not The One after all. My question is this: how did I attract the wrong guy by using what is supposed to be the right method?

Hoping to hear from you,
Katrin

Dear Katrin,

Great question and I’m glad you asked. You did a wonderful thing by intentionally manifesting your partner into your life. You took the time to make a list of qualities you desired in a partner and did your visualizations. Then 10 days later you met him! I hear many stories like yours so we know these Law of Attraction tools work.

So now things are going downhill and you can hardly believe why, and are questioning whether you attracted the wrong person in the first place. Well, I can understand why you’d believe that. We’ve all been conditioned from our parents, television, movies and society to believe that relationships are supposed to be blissful forever and that once you find the “right” person, you’re set for life…or at least it wouldn’t be this challenging?

Right? Ring true…even just a bit?

Here’s the thing. You didn’t attract the wrong guy. You attracted the right guy for where you were when you intentioned him into existence with the Law of Attraction. In other words, you attracted the right person for the level of consciousness you were vibrating at when you made your list. Are you with me so far?

So what went wrong? Well, here’s my perspective. Where we often go wrong in our relationships is that our expectations are unnatural. What do I mean by unnatural? OK, think of your relationship as a plant. What does a plant need to flourish? Water, sun, tender loving care right?

Do you know what most people do in relationship? They “fall asleep”. In other words, they do not nourish the “plant”. They do not tend to the plant on a regular basis. What would happen to a real life plant if one day, while admiring how beautiful it looked, you decided to suddenly stop watering it? After a few weeks, it would wither away and die wouldn’t it? What if you over-watered it and didn’t pay attention to its needs? It would also die.

In nature, something is either growing or dying. Another word for this is transformation. Nothing stands still…not even a rock (that is a quantum physics discussion I’m not going to go into right now). So if a plant is not growing, what is it doing?

It’s dying.

So in relationship, we are rarely taught as children as to how to tend to it, how to properly nourish it. We just assume that since it was beautiful to start with, it should remain so indefinitely.

This is an unnatural expectation!

Some would argue that they do indeed nourish their relationships. Their idea of nourishment means making sure they do their “half” of the chores, paying the bills, taking care of the children, going out eat once in a while, having sex etc. That is NOT what I’m talking about. The grand majority of people I know, myself included, go into a deep slumber when it comes to being conscious of how the relationship is growing or worse yet, if it is growing at all!

Here is how you know whether your relationship is growing:

  • You discover new things about yourself, how you tick, because of your relationship
  • You appreciate and discover new things about your partner, gifts you never recognized before
  • Conflict is less scary and you seem to be able to resolve them faster and easier, even if you disagree
  • You pursue your personal dreams – your mission – and your partner supports you in that or at least is neutral about it
  • You allow your partner to be who they are without trying to change them
  • You and your partner become more conscious of who you really are as individuals and why you attracted each other
  • You heal old patterns by practicing new ones with your partner
  • You’re willing to make mistakes in the relationship and learn from them instead of playing it safe all the time

This is not an inclusive list by far, but what I want to emphasize the most is that instead of expecting the relationship to stay the same, we ought to be focusing on actively growing it.

We all want a heart-connected relationship, don’t we? But most of the time we get so wrapped up in our daily lives that we lose consciousness of nurturing the relationship.

So why do relationships seem more difficult as time goes on?

We attract the partners we do because they serve as our spiritual teachers and healing partners. Even abusive ones, believe it or not. Often they play the same role as our parents did so that we can heal our childhood hurts. We literally PULL from them the negative things we experienced as children. If someone had taught us long ago that our partners’ role is to be our teacher, we’d then appreciate them for giving us a new opportunity to HEAL our past hurts.

But most people have no idea why they’ve chosen the partner they did.

Our partners can highlight for us our deepest shadow…something so uncomfortable that you feel like running away. But if you realize that your partner is your teacher and you can become conscious of what he is bringing up for you, you can heal it. And that does not necessarily obligate you to continue the relationship in its current form (i.e. you can split up if you want to).

Since most of us never went to Relationship School 101, myself included, we just muddle along the best we can. But truthfully, we all need guidance, mentorship and skilled support in the area of relationships.

So do you want to know what James and I do?

Firstly, we’ve committed to a couples session with our spiritual coach/healer on a monthly basis. Most of the time there is nothing “wrong”, but we go because we want to stay “awake” and we want to grow the relationship. It is amazing how quickly each of us can fall asleep! Without that objective third person to “see” through our old patterns, it can be very difficult to realize when we are getting caught up in them.

I’m a huge proponent of preventive “therapy”. In other words, I feel that couples that truly wish to flourish for a long time need to be reconnecting in a deeper way either through couples coaching/counseling on a regular basis, or through spiritual retreats and workshops at least twice a year. As well, having a weekly or monthly couples ritual can be vitally energizing to the relationship.

Why is it that people only seek “help” when their relationship is on the rocks? I’m sure you already know the answer to that question.

Secondly, make sure you dedicate a weekly “Date Night” where the agenda is just fun and connection. Pick something you both like doing and don’t let anything get in the way of “Date night”. If you have to reschedule it on occasion that is fine, but see its importance just like any other important commitment you’ve made such as going to work, brushing your teeth, exercising, paying your mortgage, etc.

So Katrin, are you ready to give up on your relationship? You can use the Law of Attraction again and again to intend the type of relationship you wish. It doesn’t end with just attraction The One. And remember, growing requires some degree of getting out of your comfort zone, so get some coaching, guidance and professional support, even if it is only for yourself.

What you do not “heal” from your past in this relationship, will resurface in the next (thanks to the Law of Attraction). You cannot escape it. It is part of becoming the biggest, happiest SELF you can become. You might as well become conscious of what you are supposed be learning in this relationship before you abandon it completely.

I believe in you.
Blessings,
Dr. Karen Kan
www.lawofattractioninlove.com

PS Let me know what you think of this article by commenting below.

PPS As you may know, I’m an avid reader of all sorts of personal growth books. This month, I’m highly recommending these two books: Co-Dependent No More by Melody Beattie and The Power of Full Engagement by Jim Loehr and Tony Schwartz.

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The Olympics and the Law of Attraction

Posted on 02 March 2010 by Dr. Karen

So what does the Olympics have to do with YOU and your life? and with the Law of Attraction?

Plenty.

If you watched the Olympics on television, maybe you caught what I’m about to tell you, or maybe you didn’t. And if you didn’t watch the Olympics at all, I’ll give you a summary of what you need to know to take advantage of the “lessons” that I noted.

After you read this, maybe you’ll appreciate more of how Energy and the Law of Attraction plays in our lives each and every day. Synchronicity is increasing exponentially in my life experience. It is in yours too, but are you aware of it? As we end a world age (2012) and enter a new one, this is to be expected.

OK, so here’s a little background. Biologist and author, Rupert Sheldrake is best known for his theory of morphogenic fields (M-fields) and morphic resonance. M-fields are invisible organizing patterns that act like energy templates to establish forms (i.e. manifesting into reality) on various levels of life. For example when Sir Roger Bannister broke the four-minute mile in running, he created a new M-field. The belief system prior to that momentus event was that the four-minute mile was not “humanly possible”. After he broke it, suddenly many runners were able to run sub-four-minute miles!

Something very similar happened at the 2010 Olympics. The hosting country, Canada, where I grew up, had never won an Olympic Gold medal on home soil. Not in Montreal in 1976, not in Calgary in 1988. In fact, my brother, who lives in Canada, chuckled when he told me that one of the Canadian comedy channels did a parody of a well-known Canadian commercial intended to inspire Patriotism whereby the motto was “We’re proud of the Olympic heritage of Canadian Bronze medals”.

Thus there was a lot of “hype” about how desperate Canada was for a gold medal. The energy “field” prior to this Olympics was one in which Canada struggled, choked and just couldn’t get the job done to win a single Gold on home soil. But a major shift occurred soon after the games began. Canadian mogul skiier, Alexandre Bilodeau won Canada’s first Gold of the Vancouver games.


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Suddenly, it seemed that Bilodeau’s victory created a new energy field, a new M-field, i.e. the template for other Canadians to win Gold as well. And win they did! Fourteen Gold medals in fact, more than any other country EVER in the history of the Winter Olympics! It is as if all the other Canadian athletes suddenly believed they too could win Gold.

And I believe that it was synchronistic that the CTV television channel that sold Olympic merchandise in Canada created their line of Vancouver 2010 clothing sporting the single-word logo, “Believe”.

That’s what I’m suggesting that YOU do. Believe. Once you’ve strived to do what in your mind was “impossible” previously, you’ll create a new M-field for yourself (and others) and suddenly, what was so difficult before, will no longer be so. If you’ve struggled in relationship after relationship with patterns repeating itself, all it means is that you need to shift up to a new M-field, a new level of consciousness in order to break the cycle. The Law of Attraction states that whatever field of energy you are resonating predominantly is what you’ll attract back to you.

Believe in yourself, in the goodness of others and in the future of this planet. When you spend energy becoming more conscious and coming closer to your True Divine Self, you can literally “jump” up to a higher energy field. But I have to be honest with you…few people ever make the jump. They often don’t know there is even such a thing.

But now you know. (for more information on the subject of consciousness energy levels, refer to David Hawkins’ book, Power vs. Force)


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When you watch the Olympics you cannot help but be moved and inspired. Whether it be mourning the loss of the luge athlete from the Republic of Georgia or the courage of the Canadian figure skater who lost her mother days before her event and skated to a bronze medal finish, or the success of athletes who had experience severe disappointment four or eight years ago only to taste the sweetness of success after not giving up, we feel all of it – it is part of our consciousness (whether you watched the Olympics or not).

By believing in yourself, you may be the one to create a new “M-field” for the rest of us to follow. Maybe you already have. It only takes a few people of higher consciousness to elevate the consciousness of a nation. When you believe in yourself and what you can co-create in this world for happiness and joy, you help everyone on this planet.

Belief underlies all manifestation. It is the core of the Law of Attraction. I believe in you.

Blessings,
Dr. Karen Kan

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Divinely inspiring and extremely practical. You will love this one!

Posted on 23 February 2010 by Dr. Karen

I have some very exciting news for you. Today is going to be such a great day that one day you will look back upon it and realize that this day was when it all started.

I am writing you today about one of the most important books of our time. This is a book with such a powerful impact that readers from around the world are comparing it to works that are absolutely timeless in their influence. I am speaking of “What Does That Mean? Exploring Mind, Meaning and Mysteries” by New York Times bestselling author, Eldon Taylor. I can assure you that his book has had an amazing effect on all who have read it.

Exploring Mind, Meaning and Mysteries

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-J.F.

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Here are some comments about the book by some real visionaries of our time:

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— Michael Bernard Beckwith,

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“What Does That Mean? goes far beyond ‘exploring mind, meaning, and mysteries’! It’s a deeply satisfying and divinely inspired book that will not only explain so many uncertainties; it will also heal many a tattered soul. Both scientific and spiritual, strong and soft, spellbinding and soothing . . . this is a must-read!”

— Crystal Andrus,

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and Transcendent Beauty

“I love this book! There is something about the energetics of Eldon’s languaging that breaks open my heart. It’s very vulnerable, but if one possesses the courage to fully let it in and respond to it, there is great power involved.”

— Anita Rehker

“What Does That Mean? guides you to ask deeply probing questions that often go ignored but must be examined if you are ever to live your best life possible. Highly recommended.”

— Marci Shimoff,

#1 New York Times best-selling author of Happy for No Reason

and Chicken Soup for the Woman’s Soul

Act Now!

Throughout these pages, Eldon shares life experiences that will lead you to revelations about your own life. Perhaps this book’s greatest value is that it assists you in remembering who you really are and thereby places you firmly back on the path to personal enlightenment. English writer and poet Joseph Addison, said, “Reading is to the mind what exercise is to the body.” If that is the case, then this book is the perfect workout to enrich your thinking. You may not always like what you read, but you will always find the depth of thought wholly provocative.

“I’ve found all of Eldon Taylor’s books fascinating, but What Does That Mean? is his magnum opus, offering a rare look at how inner guidance plays out in real life.”

— Caroline Sutherland,

author of The Body Knows . . . How to Stay Young

“What Does That Mean? is engaging, thought provoking, and quite simply a great read!”

— Christiane Northrup, M.D.,

author of The Secret Pleasures of Menopause

and Women’s Bodies, Women’s Wisdom

“Eldon Taylor provides a life changing compilation of personal and client experiences that reveal how our thoughts, emotions, and actions shape every aspect of our perceived reality. I highly recommend his captivating book, What Does That Mean? for it offers readers an opportunity to move beyond misperceived limitations and write new empowering stories for themselves, their children, and the world.”

— Bruce Lipton, Ph.D.,

author of The Biology of Belief

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Thanks and many blessings,

Dr. Karen Kan
http://lawofattractioninlove.com

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