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Is A Brain “short-circuit” Ruining Your Relationships?

Posted on 23 July 2011 by Dr. Karen

When The Law of Attraction Isn’t Bringing You What You Want

Remember The Law of Attraction teachings? You are a projector and receiver of frequency, information. Try as you might, do you ever feel like nothing you’re doing is working to bring you more of what you want? Maybe you’ve tried positive thinking, gratitude journaling, mind-movies, imagery, meditation, singing bowls, yoga, EFT, TAT…and still nothing is happening?

I may have the answer for you.

This may be a strange article for some. But I’m going out on a limb here and connecting my experience as a holistic medical doctor, energy worker and coach all together to bring you an extremely important message. You’re probably not going to hear this from any other Law of Attraction expert who isn’t a medical professional.

Brain “short-circuits” May Cause Relationship Problems

What I’m about to tell you is a recent discovery of mine, but I believe the discovering is profound and I really want to share it with you.

For many years now, I’ve been helping my patients heal holistically by using a combination of acupuncture, sound therapy, nutritional therapy and holistic health counseling. Most everyone who stuck with the program got well and many went from being disabled to being productive and happy again.

But there were always a handful of patients who never got better permanently. They’d feel great after acupuncture but the well-being would only last hours to days and then return to baseline. Nothing in my tool kit at the time could help them transform from a state of low energy, pain and depression to one of light and good energy. Although they appreciated my loving care, it frustrated me that I didn’t understand why they weren’t getting better like the rest.

Common among these “non-responders” were symptoms of depression, anxiety, PMS, chronic pain and fatigue. Most of them had strained relationships and some even refused to see people because everyone “drained” them of energy.

Well, about four months ago, everything changed because I learned something very profound.

An Enlightening Experience

The first thing that happened is that  I learned a new technique to check someone’s nervous system balance and regulation (a.k.a. brain balance). It was quick, easy and reproducible and I have Dr. Robert Stashko to thank for that. Basically a simple two-part muscle test could determine whether someone’s brain (nervous system) was “short-circuited”.

Then a new “anti-stress” patch product was released by a company that I work with. On a whim, I decided to use this patch on the acupuncture points on the head while testing someone for brain balance. To my utter shock, I discovered that this simple device could immediately brain balance someone.

The first person I tested was a friend and really didn’t have any symptoms. He just wanted to decalcify his pineal gland. I won’t go into why, but let’s just say he had read about it in a book.  When I tested him, he failed badly at which point he quipped, “Do you think the five concussions I had have anything to do with it?”

He was bald so he agreed  to patch the top of his head (this isn’t the only acupuncture point I use with people) with this patch every day for two weeks. When he returned two weeks later, I repeated the brain balance test and he was now normal. I asked him for feedback and what he said seemed rather odd to me at first:

“I’m not sure if it is the patch but I seem to be really connecting with people more lately…and even people that used to annoy me are now tolerable. There’s been a lot of synchronicities I can’t explain. And basically I don’t seem to be bothered about too much these days.”

I didn’t know what to think about his comment, but decided to continue brain balancing every patient that walked in the door because I knew it was important to get the brain back on track.

Well after a few weeks of doing this, amazing stories began to emerge. Although I wasn’t surprised that their physical complaints were getting better (sleeping better, more energy, losing weight, better mood, less stress), what amazed me was what my patients shared about the positive changes to their lives.

A couple who had been in a bitter divorce suddenly began communicating to each other again in a civil manner… People who were mired in co-dependent relationships were suddenly able to “let go” of negative relationship patterns after years of being unable to do so… One divorced patient suddenly began dating a wonderful man she had had a crush on many years ago…and another patient suddenly found the perfect house to buy.

The list goes on and on.

It was as if the brain balancing with the patch helped each person listen to their Higher Self. For many, it was the first time they “heard” their guidance so clearly.

What was clear to me was that when my patients were “brain balanced”, they automatically and effortlessly made better life decisions. Not only that, they attracted more positive opportunities, positive relationships and even more money.

To be honest I had NO IDEA that repairing the short-circuit in the brain would have such profound effects.

Do You Need a Brain Re-Wiring?

Almost 100% of new patients coming to see me fail the brain balance test. I can always tell who is brain balanced or not by how well they are doing. And the minute they “fall off the wagon”, I know why.

So how do you know if YOUR brain is affecting your life and your relationships? If you’ve struggled with stress, bad relationships, fear, scarcity, insecurity, irritability etc., it might not be your FAULT! You might have a brain short-circuit. If you’re stressed out all the time, you are 100% guaranteed to FAIL the brain balance test.

Here is a partial list of the most common reasons people’s brains get short-circuited:

  • Electromagnetic radiation from using cell phones, cordless phones, wireless internet, iPads etc.
  • Head injuries, concussions, hard falls
  • Toxins to the brain such as aspartame, MSG, mercury and lead

Here’s the good news. It is easy to get your brain balance back and the positive transformations occur rapidly, within one or two weeks. All you have to do is “patch your head” with this anti-stress patch, drink lots of water. Of course it helps to live a healthy lifestyle, but having your brain balanced this way will often motivate you to live healthier.

 
Then the next thing you do is to prevent your brain from short-circuiting again by using corded phones and getting a hard-wire internet connection. If you must use wireless, laptops, cell phones and iPads, at least purchase a protective device. And PLEASE don’t use artificial sweeteners!

So if you could use help with your Law of Attraction projector and receiver device (i.e. your BRAIN) and you’d like to try out the head patching for a month, contact me to purchase a month’s supply and I’ll make sure you know how to use them. You’ll only need a couple weeks of patching to notice the difference.

 
Brain Balance Enhances Your Law of Attraction Results
Lastly, don’t let go of all your Law of Attraction tools (meditation, imagery, EFT, TAT etc.) go to waste, because when you’re “patched” and brain balanced, those tools work even better!
Blessings,
Dr. Karen Kan
P.S. please comment if this post was helpful!

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How do I keep him from cheating on me!

Posted on 29 April 2011 by Dr. Karen

Dear Dr. Karen,

I have been married to my husband for 20 years and we have children. Even before we were married, he cheated on me. And he has time and time again! He lies and gets very defensive when I confront him, but eventually the truth comes out. I’ve left him seven times but I always go back. I’ve asked him to leave several times as well, but he always comes begging me to take him back.

And I always take him back because I love him so much. I still love him. I am tired of being hurt by him, but I remain suspicious that he’s seeing someone else behind my back. This way of life has tampered with my self-esteem and in search of solutions I have tried everything.

I now have come across the Law of Attraction but my doubts are still there: does he really love me and want to be with me? and can a situation like this change using the Law of Attraction? Please help!

Nina

Dear Nina,

Thanks for your honest letter. I hope my answer will be helpful to you. But first, I have a question for you?

What are you expecting the Law of Attraction to do for you?

Are you expecting it to magically change your husband so that he isn’t the “cheating type” any longer? Because if that is the case, then I can tell you very easily that the Law of Attraction doesn’t work this way. We can’t use the Law of Attraction to change other people against their free will.

However, what you CAN use the Law of Attraction for is to create happiness for yourself. Whether your husband is part of that ultimate happiness is up to you and the Universe to co-create together. Your Law of Attraction “wish” statement could be something like:

I am thoroughly enjoying a fulfilling romantic relationship with my soulmate.

Sometimes we fool ourselves in thinking we truly love someone when we only truly love certain parts, or aspects, of them. What I mean by this is that you seem to enjoy enough aspects of your spouse to keep him around. But there are aspects of him that you don’t like so you aren’t truly happy. Isn’t that right?

So here’s the truth of the matter:

  • the highest form of love means being able to accept who our lovers are without judgment or expectation, but that doesn’t mean that you always like or enjoy what they are doing. There is a difference.
  • you can’t change another person. You don’t have that kind of control. You can only change yourself and your reactions to situations. When you can change yourself and be fully responsible for your own happiness, then you’ll see the relationship shift remarkably.

So you have a couple of very simple choices here Nina. It is high time you took 100% responsibility for your experiences. He is not responsible for your unhappiness, you are. I don’t mean to sound harsh, but you’ve been on this yo-yo ride for over 20 years now. When will you decide to change your experience? When will you realize that what you’ve been doing all these years doesn’t work?

Here are some choices:

You can choose to accept that your husband “cheats”,  and in that acceptance, you can enjoy him as much as possible when he’s around, and give up trying to change or criticize him for not being who you think he should be (the equivalent of telling a bear that it should acting like an antelope)

Do something drastically different for a change maybe. For example,  study books on open marriages or polyamory and see if any of those resonate with either of you. If “cheating” was genetic, like diabetes, would you be as judgmental of it? Probably not. I’m not saying it is, but what if it was?

Just trying to open minds here…

How about this new thought pattern: Can you entertain the possibility that your husband loving other people in no way diminishes his love for you? Does a candle flame diminish when it lights another candle? Love is light. Think about that.

I’m bringing this up because we’ve been unconsciously indoctrinated in the concept that the ONLY way a relationship can be successful is through monogamy. Anytime there is an absolute rule, we all should be questioning it’s validity, because somewhere, sometime, long ago, someone made that rule in order to control others.

Remember, it wasn’t long ago when women and children were considered a man’s property. And in some parts of the world, they still are (sigh!).

So Nina, in summary, you can either change your perspective (by letting go of victim-hood, judgment or expectations) or change your situation by leaving, but you can’t change him. Got it? Hope so.

So if you’re not willing to leave because having him around is BETTER than not having him around, then just admit to yourself that you’ve CHOSEN this relationship in its current form and stop being the victim. You’re not the victim here. You’re choosing this. When you can be compassionate with yourself about choosing this relationship, then you can let go of all the judgment of how imperfect it is and just ENJOY your husband.

If these steps seem too difficult for you, as I imagine they might be, I suggest that you book yourself into seeing a relationship coach or counselor and get some support. We all need support for our spiritual and personal growth, so I encourage you to be courageous and find an expert that you resonate with.

In the meantime, I highly recommend you pick up a copy of Neale Donald Walsch’s book on Relationships and read it over and over again:

You can also listen to the interview I did with him HERE.

I believe in you Nina. Thanks for helping others with your question.

Blessings,

Dr. Karen Kan
P.S. Anyone reading this post, feel free to comment.

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One simple five minute exercise that harness the Law of Attraction

Posted on 19 April 2011 by Dr. Karen

If you’re into the Law of Attraction, metaphysics, quantum physics, higher consciousness or just plain into manifesting the relationship of your dreams, read on…

I’ve been doing a LOT of studying lately. On many different subjects, but all related to two major themes: Energy and Consciousness.

On the health front, I’ve been researching how electromagnetic fields (for example microwave radiation from cell phones and cell towers) can be extremely hazardous to your health. Over Christmas, I became extremely sensitive to wireless radiation (sigh!) and thus I began researching some remedies (yes I found some!).

I’ve also been into knowing more about where our food in America comes from. It isn’t a pretty picture. James, my partner, and I have been watching movies like Food Inc., The Future of Food, The Beautiful Truth and King Corn.

What’s really interesting is how the lower quality “energy” coming from our food today translates, in essence, into a lowering of your energy levels available for manifesting!

Just think. What you eat can be interfering with how you manifest!

It’s all about energy. Allowing the energy in your body to drain away because you spend a lot of time using your computer or cell phone (luckily I discovered a couple of neat tools to prevent that) or by eating low energy food (pesticide ridden produce and meat from stressed out animals) means less energy available to harness the Law of Attraction.

And what does this mean about attracting your ideal romantic partner?

Less energy = Less attractiveness. Period.

As a holistic physician and energy healing professional, I have lots of information and tools at my disposal. I could go on and on about what I personally use to enhance my “vibration”, but I’m going to start by suggesting you do the simple five minute exercise below.

As a testament to this stuff “working” in our lives, I want to share two quick stories. Last week, while I was coaching a couple on Skype using my webcam, the man commented on how I seemed to “radiate”. Also last week, when my love partner, James, was out of town with friends, a woman he was passing on the street suddenly stopped and said rather loudly, “You are BEAUTIFUL! You are the most beautiful thing I’ve ever seen!”

Nice.

How would you like to get comments like that?

Well, you can. Here’s your homework assignment for the next thirty days (preferably forever):

Every morning when you get up or every evening before you go to bed, write in a journal at least ten things you appreciate or are grateful for. At least two of these should be things you appreciate about yourself. If you’re ambitious like me, you’ll do another list of your successes for that day.

Most of us go to bed at night thinking about what we didn’t do rather than what we did do. We can be really hard on ourselves. Since the Law of Attraction states that what we focus on grows, I want you to start this habit of writing down all the positives in your life. I asked one of my clients with bulimia to do this on a daily blog and within two weeks I am witnessing the positive transformation in her life. My guess is that it was more effective than months of therapy.

This exercise may seem too simple to be useful. Don’t be fooled. This stuff works.

And make it fun. Buy yourself some nice colored pens and an attractive journal dedicated to this exercise. I have mine right by my bedside.

Let me know what you think by commenting below.

Blessings,

Dr. Karen Kan

P.S. In case you’re interested in checking out one of the tools I use to turbo-charge my manifesting abilities, check out this PAGE.

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Masaru Emoto initiative for Fukushima: we need your help

Posted on 31 March 2011 by Dr. Karen

We need your energy to heal the earth.

Masuro Emoto, author of Messages from Water, is organizing a global meditation in hope and support of the Japan nuclear crisis. To join in, tomorrow at 12pm, please say the following phrase and send your prayers of love and gratitude to water at the nuclear plants in Fukushima:

“The water of Fukushima Nuclear Plant, we are sorry to make you suffer. Please forgive us. We thank you, and we love you.”

Please say it aloud or in your mind. Repeat it three times as you put your hands together in a prayer position. Please offer your sincere prayer. Read Masuro Emoto’s article about his initiative below.

And by the way, if you bought the computer program that I recommended that helps charge your water with your intentions with great results, (found at www.lawofattractioninlove.com/thesourxe) please “charge” the oceans around Japan with the energy of “cleanse and rejuvenate”. I’ll be doing that daily with my program.

 

 

 

 

 

To All People Around the World

by Masaru Emoto on 30 March, 2011

Please send your prayers of love and gratitude to water at the nuclear plants in Fukushima, Japan.

By the massive earthquakes of Magnitude 9 and surreal massive tsunamis, more than 10,000 people are still missing, even now. It has been 16 days already since the disaster happened. What makes it worse is that water at the reactors of Fukushima Nuclear Plants started to leak, and it’s contaminating the ocean, air and water molecule of surrounding areas.

Human wisdom has not been able to do much to solve the problem, but we are only trying to cool down the anger of radioactive materials in the reactors by discharging water to them. Is there really nothing else to do?

I think there is. During over twenty year research of hado measuring and water crystal photographic technology, I have been witnessing that water can turn positive when it receives pure vibration of human prayer no matter how far away it is.

Energy formula of Albert Einstein, E=MC2 really means that Energy = number of people and the square of people’s consciousness.

Now is the time to understand the true meaning. Let us all join the prayer ceremony as fellow citizens of the planet earth. I would like to ask all people, not just in Japan, but all around the world to please help us to find a way out the crisis of this planet!!

The prayer procedure is as follows.

Name of ceremony:
Let’s send our thoughts of love and gratitude to all water in the nuclear plants in Fukushima.

Day and Time:
March 31st, 2011 (Thursday)
12:00 noon in each time zone

Please say the following phrase:

“The water of Fukushima Nuclear Plant, we are sorry to make you suffer. Please forgive us. We thank you, and we love you.”

Please say it aloud or in your mind. Repeat it three times as you put your hands together in a prayer position. Please offer your sincere prayer.

Thank you very much from my heart.

With love and gratitude,

Masaru Emoto
Messenger of Water

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The Singles Event of the Year

Posted on 11 February 2011 by Dr. Karen

Just in case you didn’t get my message below about this complementary course, I’m resending this email to you. Please remember to scroll to the bottom to view my special offer which is ONLY for my subscribers, not anyone else. Can’t wait to hear what you think! Here is the email again:

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Do you want to make 2011 the year you finally find your true love?

If the answer is yes, I’m excited to be writing to you today with a special announcement that everyone who’s looking for love needs to hear.

Starting this Valentine’s Day, 21 some of the worlds leading love experts, colleagues of mine, are coming together online to guide you through a step-by-step program to magnetize the love of your life.

It’s absolutely FREE . . . and it’s happening right here—on your computer.

It’s called The Ultimate SOULMATE Summit and it’s being hosted by two of my dear colleagues, who also happen to be two of the world’s leading experts on attracting love—Arielle Ford & Claire Zammit.

You may be asking, “Is Dr. Karen going to be presenting at the Summit?” Regrettably, the answer is no, not this year. Valentine’s Day is my birthday (yes it is!) and my soulmate, James, and long ago had made plans for a romantic getaway to go skating on the worlds longest icerink that week! I’m so sorry that I am not going to be there live.

Nevertheless, there are so many great teachers who can help you! You may resonate with one more than another, so listen to them all if you can.
You can read all about it and register for free here.

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What makes this love event so special?
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This group of the world’s top authors, teachers, transformation experts and coaches all have one thing in common: they have devoted their lives to “cracking the codes” to attracting and sustaining BIG love. Each of them holds a transformational key that will help you attract and create the kind of love your heart longs for.

You’ll learn first-hand from experts like Dr. John Gray, Debbie Ford, Neale Donald Walsh, Dr. Helen Fisher, Gay & Kathlyn Hendricks, Katherine Woodward Thomas, Alison Armstrong, Christan Carter and more.

Never before have so many experts in the field of love and relationships gathered in one place to help you discover exactly what you need to do to overcome the barriers that are keeping you from attracting the love of your life. You’ll:

  • Finally take the guesswork out of finding a Soulmate!
  • Discover a simple series of proven steps that you could take to attract a loving, committed, sacred partnership, not just with anyone, but with “the one.”
  • Learn these time-tested secrets from 21 of the world’s top experts without paying a dime

To make 2011 the year you find your Soulmate, I encourage you to take advantage of this opportunity right now and register for the event today.

Remember… the event is FREE and it’s all from the comfort of your own home.

Enjoy the Ultimate Soulmate Summit! I’m sure you’re going to love it!

IMPORTANT: Since I feel a little bad about not being available to you for this event, I’m going to offer you something special. If you register and attend the event (I should be getting a list), I will be offering you a complementary Law of Attraction in Love Group Coaching session. To keep things simple, we’re only going to allow a small group – so please register now to secure your place. We’ll be contacting you separately for when we will have the coaching session.

Blessings,
Dr. Karen
www.LawofAttractioninLove.com

PS: Remember, the Ultimate Soulmate Summit is brought to you at no charge. Plus, when you register today, you’ll get a free virtual Gift Bag with added bonuses from Dr. John Gray, Marci Shimoff, The Soulmate Secret & Calling in “The One”.

PPS: Help us “share the love” and forward this email to your single friends, colleagues and family members- they’re sure to appreciate the invitation.

The Ultimate Soulmate Summit

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Find your Soulmate in 2011

Posted on 04 February 2011 by Dr. Karen

Do you want to make 2011 the year you finally find your true love?

If the answer is yes, I’m excited to be writing to you today with a special announcement that everyone who’s looking for love needs to hear.

Starting this Valentine’s Day, 21 some of the worlds leading love experts, colleagues of mine, are coming together online to guide you through a step-by-step program to magnetize the love of your life.

It’s absolutely FREE . . . and it’s happening right here—on your computer.

It’s called The Ultimate SOULMATE Summit and it’s being hosted by two of my dear colleagues, who also happen to be two of the world’s leading experts on attracting love—Arielle Ford & Claire Zammit.

You may be asking, “Is Dr. Karen going to be presenting at the Summit?” Regrettably, the answer is no, not this year. Valentine’s Day is my birthday (yes it is!) and my soulmate, James, and long ago had made plans for a romantic getaway to go skating on the worlds longest icerink that week! I’m so sorry that I am not going to be there live.

Nevertheless, there are so many great teachers who can help you! You may resonate with one more than another, so listen to them all if you can.
You can read all about it and register for free here.

=========================
What makes this love event so special?
=========================
This group of the world’s top authors, teachers, transformation experts and coaches all have one thing in common: they have devoted their lives to “cracking the codes” to attracting and sustaining BIG love. Each of them holds a transformational key that will help you attract and create the kind of love your heart longs for.

You’ll learn first-hand from experts like Dr. John Gray, Debbie Ford, Neale Donald Walsh, Dr. Helen Fisher, Gay & Kathlyn Hendricks, Katherine Woodward Thomas, Alison Armstrong, Christan Carter and more.

Never before have so many experts in the field of love and relationships gathered in one place to help you discover exactly what you need to do to overcome the barriers that are keeping you from attracting the love of your life. You’ll:

  • Finally take the guesswork out of finding a Soulmate!
  • Discover a simple series of proven steps that you could take to attract a loving, committed, sacred partnership, not just with anyone, but with “the one.”
  • Learn these time-tested secrets from 21 of the world’s top experts without paying a dime

To make 2011 the year you find your Soulmate, I encourage you to take advantage of this opportunity right now and register for the event today.

Remember… the event is FREE and it’s all from the comfort of your own home.

Enjoy the Ultimate Soulmate Summit! I’m sure you’re going to love it!

IMPORTANT: Since I feel a little bad about not being available to you for this event, I’m going to offer you something special. If you register and attend the event (I should be getting a list), I will be offering you a complementary Law of Attraction in Love Group Coaching session. To keep things simple, we’re only going to allow a small group – so please register now to secure your place. We’ll be contacting you separately for when we will have the coaching session.

Blessings,
Dr. Karen
www.LawofAttractioninLove.com

PS: Remember, the Ultimate Soulmate Summit is brought to you at no charge. Plus, when you register today, you’ll get a free virtual Gift Bag with added bonuses from Dr. John Gray, Marci Shimoff, The Soulmate Secret & Calling in “The One”.

PPS: Help us “share the love” and forward this email to your single friends, colleagues and family members- they’re sure to appreciate the invitation.

The Ultimate Soulmate Summit

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What do I do during the “detachment” phase of manifesting?

Posted on 20 December 2010 by Dr. Karen

Hi Dr. Karen

Ive done a lot of research into the Law of Attraction. I’m seriously pursuing a soul mate. I did the laundry list & came up with my list of wants. There was 26 :) .. The next phase would be manifestation & detachment.

What do I do during this detachment phase??.. Do I keep visualizing my wants or how do I go about it??.. Please help because that’s the part I don’t understand.

Thank you,

Christina

Dear Christina,

Congrats for making your clear list of “who” you would like to attract into your love life! You’re right about detachment – it is an important step. I think the book I just finished reading, Manifesting Change by Mike Dooley says it best. Like in my Creating Your Fairytale Love Life eBook, you first create your wish list and use that to generate the “feeling” of already having manifested your dreams.

Then you detach emotionally from needing your dream to come true the way you think it should, but instead become open to something even better coming along. The Universe, when given plenty of wiggle room, will always find the best, most perfect and entertaining ways of getting you what you really want.

So in the detachment phase, your job is to, as Mike says, move in the general direction of your dreams. To give you a concrete example. If my dream is to become the best adult pairs figure skater in the world, moving in the general direction of my dreams means putting the time into to training and getting good coaching.

So to manifest your ideal partner, what are you doing to move in the general direction of your dreams? Here’s the trick, you don’t have to be moving in the “right” direction…you just have to be moving. Mike uses a great analogy in his book. When you use a GPS device in your car, you first need to input the destination right?

What happens if you don’t move? Yup, nothing.

What if you move in the opposite direction by mistake? The GPS will steer you towards the final destination and eventually you’ll make it there despite the number of detours you may take.

So you need to decide what you can do to move towards your dream. Is it cleaning out your closets so that your dream partner’s “stuff” can fit in them? Is it getting more “social” and taking a class you’ve always been interested in? Is it getting more fit so you feel good and strong in your body (and thus your vibration will be strong)?

Get a copy of Mike’s newest book if you’ve already read mine. It is a perfect compliment.

I believe in you. Let me know if this has been helpful by commenting below.

Blessings,

Dr. Karen

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Good News! Free Think and Grow Rich Book still available

Posted on 19 October 2010 by Dr. Karen

I’m really surprised, but apparently you can still get a F-ree hard copy of the “Law of Attraction” classic, Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill. I’m told that this will go on for at least October 31st. If I were you, I’d get it now…

Get the details here:
http://www.FreeTGRbook.com/DrKaren

Vic and Lisa Johnson are doing this crazy marketing test where they’re giving away Napoleon Hill’s “Think & Grow Rich.” I’m helping them with their big giveaway and wanted to make sure you got your copy before they take this offer down.

Feel f-ree to pass this on to friends. They can get one too if they act right away. This is one of my highly recommended books. Why? Because it is all about our mind, our attitudes and how that determines what we manifest in our lives.

Tell us where to send it, and we’ll send you the number one success book of all time.

Blessings,

Dr. Karen

P.S. Vic and Lisa are actually shipping these so you need to give them your address before they run out. Details here:
http://www.FreeTGRbook.com/DrKaren

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Can your thoughts of “Where is he?” prevent you from manifesting?

Posted on 12 October 2010 by Dr. Karen

Dear Dr. Karen,

Hello, I noticed in one of your newsletters that it took about twelve months to manifest your soulmate. You stated that during this duration you keep asking “Where is he?”

I thought that if you think this thought (“where is he?”) too much that your soulmate does not manifest, however in your case it still did. So is it okay to think these things without hindering the process of manifesting your soulmate?

Marianna

Dear Marianna,

Great question.

Many of us had the misunderstanding that if you allow yourself to think “negative” or non-supportive thoughts, that it would automatically prevent your intentions from manifesting. Because of this misunderstanding, thousands of people got “upset” whenever they noticed a negative thought or an unhappy feeling.

I’m here to clear the air about this misunderstanding. Most of us, even monks and spiritual masters, cannot control what thoughts pop up in our minds most of the time. Thoughts have a way of mysteriously popping up. In other words, your subconscious is not within your conscious control!

The difference between spiritual masters and us “regular” folks is that they’ve spent years training their minds not to give negative thoughts or feelings any ENERGY. It isn’t so bad to have impatient or negative thoughts. It is what you do with them that counts. When they come, do you REACT to them? Or can you just observe them and let them float away, like a leaf floating on a stream?

Our reaction to our thoughts is the ENERGY I’m talking about. The Law of Attraction works on what energy you are putting out. It is completely normal during the course of learning how to manifest something new that everyone entertains doubts. But when those doubts come, do you let it stop you from trusting the process or moving forward?

I believe that the reason I was “able” to manifest my dream partner despite my thoughts of “Why isn’t he here yet?” was that I had a STRONGER belief underneath it that knew that if other people could do it, I could too. I put MORE energy into the positive, than I did into the negative or non-supportive thoughts.

Think of it as a scale. I had much more energy (weight) on the positive side than the negative, but on occasion, the negative side would be heavier…but it didn’t last long.

Things in life aren’t perfect. The stronger energy in the “positive” drew teachers and coaches and books to me to show me how to expand beyond my limited thinking.

The Universe even “tipped” me off after I met James that he was the “one” I was asking for. You see, I didn’t “see” him as my perfect partner. He didn’t seem to match my criteria. I wanted a figure skater. I wasn’t expecting a younger man. But a friend synchronistically told me about a movie that came out called Cutting Edge 2 where a figure skater manifests her dream skating partner who happens to be an aggressive inline skater and surfer (exactly what James, my partner, was when I met him!).

So you see, you don’t have to be dismayed or react at all to your questioning “Where is he?” Just acknowledge the thought, then remind yourself that The Universe knows the quickest, fastest and best way to get that person to you. And if that person you wish is not an energetic match to who you are right now, you have some GROWING work to do!

Don’t worry. You’ll be given the opportunity to grow if you just stay open to receiving. Synchronicities happen all the time. Let the Law of Attraction work for you in love by staying open and quickly shifting your unsupportive thoughts to ones that work better for you.

I believe in you. If you get stuck, we can always do one-on-one coaching…

Blessings,
Dr. Karen
www.LawofAttractioninLove.com

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Free Online Seminar – Mind, Meaning and Mysteries

Posted on 21 September 2010 by Dr. Karen

Wow, I’ve got a great treat for you today – and it doesn’t cost you a dime! Talk about abundance. I keep finding out about all these great teachers giving great value..and sharing them with you. I hope you enjoy them. Here’s another one…

What if I told you, you could view a priceless presentation from one of today’s most intriguing speakers that will provide you with the tools needed to achieve your goals – all from the comfort of your own home and absolutely F ree.

You would take advantage of it, right? Here’s your chance.

My friend and colleague, New York Times bestselling author Eldon Taylor, has created an exceptional video presentation for all to see for a very limited time. I believe this message is so important that when Eldon asked me to help spread the news about this F ree video, I said “absolutely yes!”

More details here.
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Eldon’s three-part course addresses those areas that we all need to take into consideration if we are ever to achieve our highest best. This holds true regardless of your goals, whether your number one priorities are success and prosperity, building better relationships, or spirituality and personal peace.

Here’s what you will learn from Eldon’s presentation:

- 4 things you did not know about yourself that effect every aspect of your life!
- How you give your power away – every day.
- How your mind works and how others use this information to control you.
- 6 ways you sabotage your own success.
- How to uncover the definitive guide to your own life – unlock your personal story.
- 5 no cost tools you can use to discover who you really are.
- Learn how to discern the right answers for yourself.
- How to find the best personal teacher for yourself – and this answer will surprise you!
- And Much More!

More details here.
http://tiny.cc/KarenKan

Eldon has presented numerous seminars and workshops across the country and around the world with people paying up to $500 to attend. Eldon is also a frequent presenter at the Hay House I Can Do It conferences and has been called a “master of the mind.”

I know this video will make a powerful difference in your life so please do check it out! Eldon’s presentation is the perfect roadmap to finding your spiritual self. You will love the phenomenal stories Eldon shares that will bring tears to your eyes and a warm glow to your heart. And the best part is, for a limited time you can view this presentation from the comfort of your own home absolutely F ree.

Please remember, act now, this video is only available F ree for a very limited period of time. Don’t miss out, click the link below!

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Blessings,

Dr. Karen Kan
www.LawofAttractioninLove.com
P.S. If you haven’t listened to my radio interview (Sept 13th) with Eldon about Mind Programming, you’ll want to…you can listen to the archive free at www.blogtalkradio.com/drkaren. Enjoy!

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