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Divinely inspiring and extremely practical. You will love this one!

Posted on 23 February 2010 by Dr. Karen

I have some very exciting news for you. Today is going to be such a great day that one day you will look back upon it and realize that this day was when it all started.

I am writing you today about one of the most important books of our time. This is a book with such a powerful impact that readers from around the world are comparing it to works that are absolutely timeless in their influence. I am speaking of “What Does That Mean? Exploring Mind, Meaning and Mysteries” by New York Times bestselling author, Eldon Taylor. I can assure you that his book has had an amazing effect on all who have read it.

Exploring Mind, Meaning and Mysteries

Here’s what one reader said:

“Wow–what a read!!! The idea of a book as an experience is not new, but this experience is! Just when I thought I was comfortable with “knowing” a little about myself the shutters were thrown open by “What Does That Mean?” and the light nearly blinded me. Sometimes the intensity was so great that I felt like throwing the book–but I didn’t, I stayed with it and I do not regret that decision one tiny little bit. This book will provoke you, it will cause you to cry, it will bring laughter and joy to you, and much more–but what it won’t do is allow you to remain status quo.

“In the end, the read is inspiring, absolutely uplifting and full of hope. There are miracles and moments that just cause your skin to bubble with goose bumps. This is a great read–don’t miss it!”


Act Now

Here are some comments about the book by some real visionaries of our time:

“Eldon’s provocative voice of wisdom and compassion places his readers right on the dot about the meaning of their individual existence. What Does That Mean? reveals how the paradoxes we face in everyday life form the rich material that invites us to confidently enter the mystery and relish it. Read, practice, and celebrate!”

— Michael Bernard Beckwith,

author of Spiritual Liberation-Fulfilling Your Soul’s Potential

“What Does That Mean? goes far beyond ‘exploring mind, meaning, and mysteries’! It’s a deeply satisfying and divinely inspired book that will not only explain so many uncertainties; it will also heal many a tattered soul. Both scientific and spiritual, strong and soft, spellbinding and soothing . . . this is a must-read!”

— Crystal Andrus,

author of Simply . . . Woman!

and Transcendent Beauty

“I love this book! There is something about the energetics of Eldon’s languaging that breaks open my heart. It’s very vulnerable, but if one possesses the courage to fully let it in and respond to it, there is great power involved.”

— Anita Rehker

“What Does That Mean? guides you to ask deeply probing questions that often go ignored but must be examined if you are ever to live your best life possible. Highly recommended.”

— Marci Shimoff,

#1 New York Times best-selling author of Happy for No Reason

and Chicken Soup for the Woman’s Soul

Act Now!

Throughout these pages, Eldon shares life experiences that will lead you to revelations about your own life. Perhaps this book’s greatest value is that it assists you in remembering who you really are and thereby places you firmly back on the path to personal enlightenment. English writer and poet Joseph Addison, said, “Reading is to the mind what exercise is to the body.” If that is the case, then this book is the perfect workout to enrich your thinking. You may not always like what you read, but you will always find the depth of thought wholly provocative.

“I’ve found all of Eldon Taylor’s books fascinating, but What Does That Mean? is his magnum opus, offering a rare look at how inner guidance plays out in real life.”

— Caroline Sutherland,

author of The Body Knows . . . How to Stay Young

“What Does That Mean? is engaging, thought provoking, and quite simply a great read!”

— Christiane Northrup, M.D.,

author of The Secret Pleasures of Menopause

and Women’s Bodies, Women’s Wisdom

“Eldon Taylor provides a life changing compilation of personal and client experiences that reveal how our thoughts, emotions, and actions shape every aspect of our perceived reality. I highly recommend his captivating book, What Does That Mean? for it offers readers an opportunity to move beyond misperceived limitations and write new empowering stories for themselves, their children, and the world.”

— Bruce Lipton, Ph.D.,

author of The Biology of Belief

For a limited time only, take advantage of an amazing special offer that also includes a wonderful bonus gift from myself. You do not want to miss this one.

Get It Here Now!

Thanks and many blessings,

Dr. Karen Kan

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Attracting Love By Reprogramming Your Subconscious Mind

Posted on 21 February 2010 by Dr. Karen

For this Monday’s radio show, I will be interviewing Eldon Taylor about his patented subliminal technology that helps to rewire the subconscious mind in thinking positive rather than negative thoughts. I will be asking him to describe how this technology can help you attract the ideal partner of your dreams.

For the past 30 years, Eldon Taylor has researched the power of the mind. He has earned doctoral degrees in psychology and metaphysics and his work has been featured on numerous radio and televisions shows as well in documentaries. He is a Fellow in the American Psychotherapy Association (APA) and a Diplomat in The Academy of Certified Chaplains. He has presented seminars and workshops around the country and across the globe.

The cornerstones to Eldon’s work are quite simple and have remained constant over the 30 years that he has publicly shared them. He refers to them as the four corners of success: forgiveness, gratitude, self-responsibility and service. In his latest books, Choices and Illusions and Mind Programming, Eldon shares his own story as he integrates it with his work and research. He casts a bright light on how and why we have self-imposed limitations and false self-images, and demonstrates how we can retrain the mind and leave negative self-sabotaging, self-limiting patterns in the past. Moreover, he shows us how we can change our lives today! Indeed, he makes the process of change so simple and clear that his readers and listeners can enjoy happier, healthier lives almost immediately—without having to buy anything.

Here are the details:

Monday February 22, 2010 at 12 noon EST

Call in number: 347-945-6313
Hit “1” if you’d like me to see your “hand up” to ask a question

The show will be broadcast live at Anyone can download the show free of charge afterwards in case you missed it.

Dr. Karen

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Is it shallow intend a certain “race” for my dream partner?

Posted on 18 February 2010 by Dr. Karen

Dear Dr Karen,

I would love some advice regarding manifestation. My question is: is it wrong, unrealistic or inflexible to specify a particular race as part of your dream partner’s ”laundry list” specifications if that happens to be what you are attracted to? I realize this must sound so shallow but I have been in two minds about this issue, especially seeing as my family and friends say I’m being ridiculous in being attracted to particular nationalities. So much so, that I feel guilty and needless to say my attempts at visualization have been going nowhere because I can’t shake off the feeling of being terribly shallow.

Am I being limiting in writing this down in the laundry list or should I continue to visualize/embody what I happen to be attracted to? Any advice would be greatly appreciated!

Thanks in advance!

Dear Anon,

Great question. Thanks for asking this as I’m sure it is on other people’s minds as well. Here’s the thing. The Universe has absolutely NO judgment good or bad on what you prefer or find attractive in a partner. The real issue is not whether you should or shouldn’t specify a particular race for your partner. The real issue is how you feel about doing so.

Apparently, you are feeling guilty and are judging yourself as being shallow. It is your self-judgment that is detrimental, not your desire or preferences. Sometimes we cannot know why we desire certain things. It may be a soul wish and you’ll never know for sure the reason. So my advice is that instead of causing yourself emotional pain by questioning your preferences, learn to lovingly accept them instead.

There is nothing wrong with finding a particular race more attractive. It doesn’t mean you are rejecting the other races per se, but instead, it is just a preference. If someone else thinks you are shallow, ignore the judgment. You are only shallow if you think you are. Reframe your judgment into a preference and drop the emotional content surrounding your preference.

It’s no big deal.

And you don’t have to justify your preferences to anyone either. It is none of their business. Your wish list doesn’t have to be publically scrutinized. The only person that has to like it is you. If you’re truly concerned, you can get a coaching session on your “laundry list” if you really want constructive feedback. I’ve helped my clients clarify their choices that sometimes were based on old habits rather than conscious choices.

Just know…there is an abundance of wonderful amazing people to choose from. Don’t worry about limiting yourself because of just this one preference. Stop being hard on yourself. Let it go.

Please comment and let me know what you think of this blog post.

Dr. Karen Kan

P.S. Remember that February is LOVE month and it is a great opportunity to not only contribute to Haiti Relief (50% of profits go to Haiti), but to make the commitment to yourself to using the Law of Attraction to manifest your greatest relationship. Get free access to the Law of Attraction in Love Teleseminar Series 2009 with any purchase.

Purchase both the Creating Your Fairytale Love Life eBook and Law of Attraction Home Study Course and get a FREE 30 minute private coaching session with me worth $175.

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February “LOVE” specials for you from Dr. Karen

Posted on 17 February 2010 by Dr. Karen

How do you feel about February? Do you normally look forward to Valentine’s Day or dread it? How was it this year for you? If you’re single, did you celebrate your Goddess or God within? or did you try to avoid all the hearts, romance, chocolate etc. out there because your were “partner-less”?

Whatever your answer, it’s OK. I would, however encourage you to take some time to be “LOVING” to yourself – whether that means having a day at the spa, getting a new health club membership, or taking a short vacation. When you vibrate at the level of love through loving yourself, you attract more love.

As for me, I like to celebrate February! Not only is it Chinese New Year, but also February 14th is my birthday. I just turned 43 and celebrated with good friends on my dream outdoor ice rink James, my love partner, built for me. Here’s the thing though: life is not always smooth even when it is your dream life. In fact, sometimes things just fall apart before it comes together. But the magic comes when you have faith.

Case in point: if you check out the photos of our ice rink being built, it actually mirrors many of our experiences in life and love.

1. A new relationship is exciting and everything looks so positive
2. The relationship takes some work, but without obstacles, you feel great
3. Disaster hits and it seems that everything you’ve built has just died
4. Turning point – you either give up emotionally, or you ask yourself, how do I want to live from this point forward?
5. You either remain upset that things didn’t work out the way you wanted them to or you keep your dream alive and just keep moving forward, one step at a time and believing instead “Everything is perfect. It is all for my highest good”.

Check out our rink building photos to see a visual of this process. Yes, yes, it is just a rink, but our “internal” experience (excitement, sadness, faith, joy) are mirrored in the progression of the photos. Keep this in mind when you are “manifesting”.

Here are the pics:

Oh, almost forgot the REAL reason I wanted to write you! I’m having a February special!

For every eBook and Law of Attraction Home Study Course purchased this month, you will receive special access to a secret page with downloadable MP3’s of all the Law of Attraction in Love Teleseminars I’ve done in 2008, in addition to the two eBook bonuses you’ll find on the eBook purchase page.


For the first 5 people who purchase BOTH the eBook and Home Study Course this month (doesn’t have to be on the same day), you will qualify for a FREE 30 minute private coaching session with me!! That is an extra $175 Bonus! You will need to be able to use the free SKYPE voice over internet service ( so I can call you for your coaching session. Your FREE coaching session must be used in the month of February or March 2010.


You’ll feel extra good about your purchase because, 50% of the profits will be donated to Haiti Relief. If you already made a purchase this month, THANK YOU!! and you can still qualify for the above coaching bonus by making the second purchase. We’ll be contacting you shortly about the other (teleseminar) bonus.

So you can treat yourself and get going on manifesting the relationship of your dreams!

Let me know what you think of this post by commenting below. Thanks in advance!

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Love in 90 Days: Interview with Dr. Diana Kirschner

Posted on 13 February 2010 by Dr. Karen

Single women everywhere are looking for love, and asking the same questions over and over: “Why hasn’t he called?” “Why am I attracted to the wrong guys?” “Should I date him or dump him?” Psychologist Dr. Diana Kirschner helps women answer these questions once and for all in her bestselling book, Love In 90 Days.

According to Dr. Diana, one of the biggest reasons many women don’t find true love is they should have dumped the DUD (Definitely Unworkable Dude) they’ve been dating a long time ago!

How do you know whether to DUMP HIM or KEEP DATING HIM? This Monday, Dr. Diana can share the top 16 most popular DATING GAMES MEN PLAY (from the brand new chapter in the book) and help you decide whether his behavior is worth putting up with and how to successfully keep DATING HIM OR whether it’s time to DUMP HIM once and for all and find the love you deserve!

Diana Kirschner Ph.D.’s bestselling dating advice book, Love in 90 Days, is the basis for her PBS Special. It’s just out in paperback with a new chapter on Dating Games Men Play. In January, 2009 Fox’s Morning Show issued an official challenge to Dr. Diana: Could she really help someone to find love in just 90 days? Over 13 consecutive weeks Fox viewers watched and ratings hit an all-time high, as Dr. Diana helped dating-challenged Amelia go from zero dates to having 12 great prospects to a dramatic finale where a beaming Amelia found the One.

Dr. Diana is a frequent guest psychologist on The Today Show and has appeared on: Oprah & Access Hollywood. She has been quoted as a love expert in The New York Times, USA Today, Cosmopolitan & People magazines. Her new Ultimate Secrets to Finding the Love You Want text message program is now available by texting “love” to 484848. Dr. Diana has hundreds of dollars in free bonus gifts for the first 500 who order the Love in 90 Days paperback or her Ultimate Secrets text message program at

Here are the details for the show:

Monday February 15 at 12 noon EST

Call in number: 347-945-6313
Hit “1” if you’d like me to see your “hand up” to ask a question

The show will be broadcast live at Anyone can download the show free of charge afterwards in case you missed it.


Dr. Karen

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If He’s Not The One, Who Is? – Interview with Lisa Steadman

Posted on 07 February 2010 by Dr. Karen

For the second time, we have relationship journalist Lisa Steadman joining us tomorrow on our LOAIL radio show.

“Is he Mr. Next or Mr. Right?” This is one of the thought-provoking questions posed in her latest book, “If He’s Not the One, Who Is?: What Went Wrong and What It Takes to Find Mr. Right” This book is a sequel to Steadman’s previous best seller, “It’s a Breakup, Not a Breakdown,” which she wrote after enduring a heart wrenching breakup herself five years ago.

In the book, Steadman includes exercises and quizzes to assist the reader in learning from her past and getting clear about her life, leading up to the million dollar question: “Is he Mr. Next or Mr. Right?” The book also details common pitfalls women fall prey to in relationships, how to get unstuck, types of men to steer clear of, and practical advice on how to date, all delivered with Steadman’s light, humorous style. After getting back out there and dating, Steadman warns against having a scarcity mentality and projecting all of your expectations onto one person. She recommends you ask yourself if the man you are dating meets your needs and if he shares your values and long-term goals. If the answer is no, get out immediately or set a deadline to do so.

Join us tomorrow for an exciting discussion!

Here are the details:

Monday February 8, 2010 at 12 noon EST

Call in number: 347-945-6313
Hit “1” if you’d like me to see your “hand up” to ask a question

The show will be broadcast live at Anyone can download the show free of charge afterwards in case you missed it.

“Your chance at love didn’t go out the door when your ex did,” says Steadman. “I wrote this book to help women reinvent themselves after a breakup and give them the tools to get out there and attract Mr. Next…and eventually Mr. Right.”  


Dr. Karen

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Attracting More Money

Posted on 05 February 2010 by Dr. Karen

Dear Dr. Karen,

Money is energy, and I emanate my own energy from within and attract to me what is compatible to my energy frequency, how can I attract money to me so that I don’t end up working myself to the bone only to end up barely above water when I’m an old man?



Dear Kelvin,

You are correct in saying that money is energy and that in order to attract money, you must radiate the “ideal” money-coherent frequency. So the good news is that you already UNDERSTAND the concept of what must happen in order to attract money into your life.

The seven steps of manifesting that I teach in my eBook and my Law of Attraction Home Study Course are the same whether you are manifesting love in your life or more money. What I’ve found is that step number 5, which deals with Obstacles, can be the most stubborn when it comes to money.

Many of us grew up with negative money beliefs, some of which we are not even aware of. The subconscious negative beliefs about money and wealth are the MAIN reasons that hamper people from consciously using the Law of Attraction to attract more money. In other words, it isn’t about how much schooling you received, whether you are smart enough or even if you work hard enough. It boils down to your beliefs!

There is a saying amongst Law of Attraction teachers that goes something like this: Your income will be the average of the income of the five closest people you hang out with. Now I’m not saying to go out today and ditch your “poor” friends, but seriously, unless you make an effort to learn to get to know and emulate powerful, enlightened wealthy people, your chances of money success is next to nil!

I’ll share with you what I’ve found most helpful for myself. First is a free teleseminar about your money beliefs and how they affect your success:

Next is a list of books I recommend that you start devouring immediately!

  • Secrets of the Millionaire Mind, T. Harv Eker
  • Millionaire Maker, Loral Langemeier
  • Cash Machine for Life, Loral Langemeier
  • The Four Hour Work Week, Tim Ferris
  • Rich Dad, Poor Dad, Robert Kiyosaki
  • Put More Cash in Your Pocket, Loral Langemeier
  • Who Do You Think You Are? Keith Leon

Here’s some general pointers:

  • You need to learn to take interest in managing money, even if you have to fake it initially. The Universe will not give you MORE until you have demonstrated that you can handle more.
  • Clarity breeds better intentions. If you don’t know what your “profit-loss” numbers are on a monthly basis, start doing this today. It isn’t hard (check out Millionaire Maker for instructions)
  • Money does not come into chaos.
  • If you don’t good reasons for the amount of money you want to attract, you won’t get it. So become clear on what you wish to DO with the money and how much it will actually cost.
  • The people who get paid the most usually help the most people.
  • Change your money language.

Notice what you said above: so that I don’t end up working myself to the bone only to end up barely above water when I’m an old man?


That sentence is chock full of old beliefs and attitudes that no longer serve your higher purpose. Can you see that now? What I’m hearing is the belief that one must work HARD (to the bone even!) for a LONG time to earn lots of money. The “barely above water” is a really strong SCARCITY phrase and I encourage you to get rid of this type of language from your vocabulary starting right now.

There are big No-No phrases if you’re using the Law of Attraction to attract more money:


  • We can’t afford it (if you say it, it will be true for you)
  • That’s too expensive (scarcity energy)
  • Must be nice! (to be able to afford such-and-such…envy energy)
  • Money doesn’t grow trees (of course it does…it is made of paper isn’t it?)
  • I just want enough to be comfortable (comfort is highly overrated and not a single wealthy person got there by being comfortable!)
  • Materialism is bad (no it isn’t, it just depends on your intentions)
  • Money is the root of all evil (money is just energy remember?)

Here are positive things to do:

  • When you see someone who seems wealthy, appreciate them instead of being envious – and tell yourself, if they can do it, so can I
  • Appreciate beautiful material things, even if you don’t plan on buying them. Anti-materialism will keep you poor for sure!
  • Grow out of your comfort zone and get some professional coaching to help you find out what your passions are and how you can make money from them.

Learning how to become wealthy requires intensive but FUN study. You’ll learn to use your GIFTS in a way that serves as many people as possible. It is part of your Life Mission!

I believe in you.

Dr. Karen Kan


February is LOVE month, so I’d like to share a valuable offer. As most of you know, Haiti and those that lost loved-ones have been on our minds and in our prayers since the earthquake in January. For the month of February, I’m donating 50% of the profits from my eBook and Law of Attraction Home Study Course sales to Haiti.

Please help me in giving to them (as well as giving to yourself)! Here are the links:

Creating Your Fairytale Love Life eBook

Law of Attraction in Love Home Study Course

Thank you in advance!


Dr. Karen

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