Most of the time we beat ourselves up with making New Year’s Resolutions and then not following up with them. There is much controversy about HOW we should make our New Year’s Resolutions. Most of the teachers I read prefer to set GOALS with deadlines.
Nevertheless it is a personal choice. See what is working for you and what is not.
Here are some tips I recommend:
1. Type it up with large pleasing font on a nice sheet of paper and paste it up in your workspace or somewhere like your bathroom mirror where you’ll see it every day.
2.Put “small” goals as well as large ones on the list. And if the list is too large and overwhelming, it isn’t going to help you…it will just depress you. Example, “Tell James at least one thing I appreciate about him every day”
3. If you’re goal-setting around habits, then make consistency the most important thing and give yourself some wriggle room and make sure you write down your successes: eg. Contact at least one sales lead every week for my network marketing company (even if you think you should do 50)
4. Be willing to revise your resolutions as you reach for your goals and dreams while at the same time staying focused on what you want to create.
If you want to read more on goal-setting per se, read this article by Mark Victor Hansen.
Comment below and let me know what YOUR resolutions are going to be!
Happy New Year!
Blessings,
Dr. Karen Kan
www.lawofattractioninlove.com
