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Interview: Satyen Raja on Sex, Passion and Enlightenment

Posted on 30 May 2009 by Dr. Karen

For my upcoming BlogTalkRadio show this Monday, I will be interviewing Satyen Raja of Warrior Sage.


A remarkable living synthesis of Eastern wisdom and of Western practicality, Satyen Raja combines the power of the Warrior and the wisdom of the Sage to inspire audiences worldwide. Satyen is a unique blend of power and of heart. He is a Kung-Fu Master and a trainer of the renowned Illumination Intensive. He has taught thousands of students around the world the art of ‘true power’. Satyen’s dramatic style is not for the timid. Through his teachings, your weaknesses become strengths… Quickly!

Here are the details:

Topic: Sex, Passion and Enlightenment – how to create passionate intimacy that lasts

Monday June 1, 2009 at 12 noon EDT (
Call in number: 347-945-6313?
Hit “1″ if you’d like me to see your “hand up” to ask Satyen a question

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Dear Dr. Karen: How Do I Use the Law of Attraction to Get a Doctor as My Partner?

Posted on 25 May 2009 by Dr. Karen

Dear Dr. Karen,


How do I use the law of attraction to get a Doctor as my life partner? how should be my daily affirmations be? my family is looking for proposals and I desire to marry a doctor. so pls advise me.



Dear Shana,

Let me ask you a question before I answer you. If a man you knew only wanted to marry a blond American model with a bust size of 34C, what would you say to him? Would you judge him shallow? Unintelligent? Inflexible?

Let me ask you another question. Why do you want to marry a doctor? Because you’ve always wanted to be one and you couldn’t, so this is second best? Because you think somehow it will bring you financial security? (It doesn’t by the way..I’m a doctor and most I know are eyeballs in debt!) Because it will make your family happy and stop pestering you to get married? Or because somehow it will make you seem like a worthy person in the eyes of others?

Why am I asking you these questions? Because The Universe will NEED to know your WHY. You don’t need to tell me, but you do need to be brutally honest with yourself (and thus the Universe) as to the why. If your WHY is big enough AND resonates with your soul’s wish AND is in the highest and best interest of all, then you will manifest your dreams.

Let me present you with my guesses as to what this is all about. When I was a little girl, it was considered prestigious to marry a doctor. I suppose it still is. The belief at the time was that I would have an easy time after marriage…my husband would take care of the finances and I could just relax my way to happiness. It would make me look “lucky” if I snagged one and I would have fur coats and diamond rings like my mother always wanted for herself (but she married a teacher, so she had to buy these things herself!). I would live the life of luxury.

Well, I decided that I didn’t want to be someone’s trophy wife, so instead I became a doctor myself. And then I got to witness firsthand what the life of a doctor is like and what the family has to endure. Let’s just say that being the traditional doctor’s wife (or husband) is a thankless job. Being a wife is worse because of our societal expectations of women in general. Traditionally, the wife takes care of the finances, childcare, volunteering, cooking, cleaning and the husband who could be grumpy and tired after working 36 hours in a row. Yes, there are some material perks, but with a partner who isn’t available, how fun is that?

OK, well the modern doctor’s marriage is a little better for women here in N. America at least. There is more equality and the guys pitch in to help around the house more.

But you know what, it isn’t any easier than marrying a non-doctor. Doctor’s wives are just as happy or unhappy as anyone else and have more stressors. More is expected of them. They are “just the wife” in the eyes of others and that is a tough place to be if your spouse is the “hero” doctor and you are not.

A doctor is simply just another person. He may earn more than the average person, but he also works more than the average person – between 60-100 hours a week. If you are marrying him just for his “money”, you won’t be very happy. I can guarantee that!

Besides, the best way to marry into wealth is to become wealthy yourself. Like attracts like. That’s the law of attraction. If you don’t resonate those vibrations, you won’t be able to attract it!

So a more appropriate affirmation would be: “I am abundantly wealthy and happy, married to a man who loves and adores me”

And after all that I’ve said, if you are still wanting to marry a doctor, then your BEST chance bar none is to go to medical school and become one. Many of my doctor colleagues married each other! Why? Because if you are spending 100+ hours a week seeing no one else except colleagues and patients, who else do you date????


Dr. Karen Kan

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Removing Obstacles in Manifesting Your Soulmate

Posted on 23 May 2009 by Dr. Karen

I hope you are free Monday to join me for my Law of Attraction in Love Radio Show. I’ve arranged two very special guests to be on the show, Michael Shuster and Jodi McDonald. In my eBook, Creating Your Fairytale Love Life, there is a very important chapter on how to neutralize emotional obstacles to manifesting your dream partner. Lingering negative emotions from past relationships can literally drive a wedge between you and happiness…between you and that soulmate you wish to manifest.Well, you are in for a treat Monday!

Michael and Jodi SPECIALIZE in helping people clear their “baggage” from past relationships and hardships. If you’ve ever had a challenging relationship in the past, whether it be romantic or not, this show is for you!

Here are the details:
Monday May 25, 2009 at 12 noon EDT (
Call in number: 347-945-6313
Hit “1” if you’d like me to see your “hand up” to ask Michael and Jodi a question

And it gets even better. Keep reading…

As a gift to YOU, my family of subscribers, Michael and Jodi are offering FREE tuition contest to their LIVE event where you will discard the “yuck” that isn’t serving you any longer so you can manifest clearly and quickly whatever your heart desires. The neutralizing of obstacles is a VERY important step in the manifesting process for most people, so I urge you to take advantage of this generous offer.

Here’s their offer to you:

“To add value for you, Dr. Karen’s listeners, we would like to offer a contest here on your show, and give away a pair of tickets to your loyal listeners- that’s FREE admission for you and a friend ($198 value) to attend one of our upcoming events live. We just launched our new tour for this year (2009) and as we are now underway, we are also expanding our list of cities to visit through the rest of the

So, all we need you to do is go to the following webpage, and simply fill out the form to let us know what city you are in and that you would like us to come help you attract the love of your life. That will ensure we bring our events to where they are needed the most, and we can help you personally.
By filling out the form, you ARE ENTERED to win a pair of FREE tickets, and we will give out a FREE pair for EACH city we visit.

NOW: If you are in New York, Florida, Chicago, or one of the cities that is already scheduled, we WILL STILL accept your entry because you are still letting us know that it is important for us to come there and see you.”

With Love …

Michael Shuster
NOTICE: Do you know someone with Chronic Pain, or someone
who is having trouble in their marriage or dealing with relatives.
Please … tell them to go to or email us.
We can help!!!

Dr. Karen

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Dear Dr. Karen: What ACTION is required to manifest my new soulmate?

Posted on 17 May 2009 by Dr. Karen

Hi Dr. Kan,

Recently I read somewhere that our thoughts bring us what we seek, but it is only through action that we receive it.

Over the past few weeks I have made my soulmate list and meditations. And now the Universe has brought someone in my life that I can see as a potential life partner. So, in this case what action would I have to take?

Thanks, Ali

Dear Ali,

You’ve asked a really interesting question Ali and that is why I’m addressing it in my blog. One of the “criticism” of the movie, The Secret, is that many who watched it erroneously thought that if they just did the “wishing” part, that what they wanted would just magically fall into their lap.

Now, it doesn’t mean that it isn’t true some of the time, but the nuances of manifesting could not be included in such a short movie. Basically, I’m here to teach you that the BIGGER the outcome you wish for (in your perception), the  BIGGER the ACTION you will likely need to take in order to receive it.

For example, if you are wishing to manifest a cup of coffee from someone, it probably isn’t going to take a lot action to get it, because a cup of coffee is “not a big deal” to most people. On the other hand, manifesting a dream love partner IS a big deal to most people and in their perception, is challenging, difficult or rare. Thus bigger action is required often to fully manifest the dream. And big action often means stretching your comfort zone or your belief structure.

Congrats to you for taking the time to make your soulmate list and for committing to your meditations (for manifesting)! That is already an ACTION that many people don’t even know to take! These are the first two steps to manifesting your ideal love partner from my eBook, Creating Your Fairytale Love Life. If you haven’t picked up a copy, I’d highly recommend it because the later chapters deal with obstacles and how to overcome them.

There are many actions you can take now that you made your list and have done your embodying (meditations). The next step is “acting as if” your soulmate has or will arrive shortly. How will you make space in your life for this person? Have you become all those qualities yourself that you have on that soulmate list? If not, you’d better get cracking!

On a practical level, since you have attracted a prospect that might meet your specifications, your next action step is to see if the glove fits. Get to know this person without attachment to the outcome that he/she is THE one you are looking for.

Have the curiousity to discover who he/she REALLY is, not who you want them to be. I’ve made myself miserable in the past by jumping the gun and being blind to the fact that the person I attracted WASN’T my ideal partner.

Keep in mind that sometimes that even though our soulmates will sense a connection right away, sometimes one of you has some personal growth work to do before you are ready for each other. Check out the Law of Attraction in Love Radio show I did with Keith Leon (especially the first one) on this subject!

Lastly, just take the logical NEXT STEP. You don’t have to know three steps ahead. You don’t have to know if you will be right or wrong. The more attached you are to being “correct” the less you will enjoy the mystery and wondrousness of life. So the next logical step in your case is to get to know the other person better. It’s that simple.


Dr. Karen

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Making Room For Mr. Right

Posted on 17 May 2009 by Dr. Karen


You may want to drop everything you are doing and give this important message  two minutes of your undivided attention.

Deals come and go, but I have wonderful news for you, this offer will make your eyes water (with tears of joy).

I’ll get right to the point…

Robin and Michael Mastro wrote a brand new, beautiful book called “Making Room for Mr. Right” (How to Attract the Love of Your Life).

They are launching a special promotion that you benefit from because you
are a friend and subscriber to my list.

What does all of this mean to you?

They have brought together like-minded “law of attraction” experts and
best-selling authors who believe in the importance of love. The Mastro’s have created an irresistible offer for you … but you must act today.

I urge you to go to this link now:

The Mastros are both successful entrepreneurs who have been teaching yoga, meditation, and spiritual awareness techniques for many years.

In “Making Room for Mr. Right” Robin and Michael Mastro translate ancient
techniques (used for thousands of years) into a single method of drawing joy, love, and prosperity into one’s life.

And, the best part is, the methods they share with you in “Making Room for Mr. Right” are transferable to other areas of your life (for example: better
health, greater success, financial abundance).

Even if your love life has been a challenge for you in the past, now is the
time to make a positive change and either attract the love of your life or
bring more passion and happiness into your current relationship.
This total offer is a tiny investment of less than $15 – and the exponential
return you will realize is off the charts in value.

That only took 2 minutes to read this email, right? Well, this is the part
that will make your eyes water – go here now:


Dr. Karen Kan

P.S. Whether you are single and unattached or in an unfulfilling relationship,
“Making Room for Mr. Right” will help you experience true love right now!

The link again is:

Robin and Michael Mastro

Robin and Michael Mastro

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Interview: Relationship Expert Keith Leon

Posted on 03 May 2009 by Dr. Karen

Join me Monday (tomorrow) May 4th at 12 noon New York EDT ( on the Law of Attraction in Love radio show where my good friend and relationship expert, Keith Leon, will be answering your questions on manifesting LOVE!

Just go to for details. You can also call in LIVE at 1-347-945-6313 and hit “1” to raise your hand to ask a question.

This call is going to be FANTASTIC! If you miss it, you can still download the archive of the call for FREE!

Talk to you then!

Dr. Karen Kan

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How Well Can YOU Change Your Vibration?

Posted on 03 May 2009 by Dr. Karen

Ever wish you could control the vibration in your energy field? Well, now there is a way to TRAIN yourself beyond meditation. Using the technology of biofeedback, you can tell how well you are doing in controlling your energy and your autonomic nervous system. This is a great way for teens and adults alike to have fun while learning to “meditate”:

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Dear Dr. Karen: Do You Believe in the No Contact Rule in Break Ups?

Posted on 03 May 2009 by Dr. Karen

Dear Dr. Karen,

Have you heard of the No Contact Rule when it comes to break ups? Do you think that really works? My boyfriend broke up with me on Christmas Day because he thinks I lied to him and told me to never speak to him again. I didn’t do what he said. We’ve had no contact since the Tuesday before Christmas. I’ve been trying to let go but still anguishing waiting for him to contact me at least by phone stating he needs to talk to me. Do you believe in the No Contact rule?


Dear Donna,

Great question Donna. I can imagine the anguish you must feel when you feel you’ve done nothing wrong and you can’t explain yourself to your boyfriend. Frustrating I would imagine.

It neither believe or dis-believe in the “no contact” rule. It has nothing to do with belief.

Your boyfriend had a very serious reaction to whatever he thought you did. It probably touched his “core wound” and the pain was so great that he did whatever he felt was best to shield himself from further wounding. The fact that you didn’t mean to do any harm is besides the point. It is his perception that he is relying on. That’s all he has. And his perceptions are based in his “relationship blueprint” from childhood.

If his actions seem unreasonable to you, it is further evidence of this “wounding” I’m talking about. He is not consciously aware of this wounding so his actions will seem perfectly “logical” to him. For example, if he witnessed his father “lying” to his mother and how upset she was when he was a young boy, he will react violently to anything remotely similar in his adult life. See if you can feel a little bit of understanding and compassion now that you know this.

The one action you can take is to respect his space and his request for non-contact. I know this sounds very difficult, but trust me, if you push for contact, you will lose his trust further. I had an old boyfriend who didn’t respect my wish for non-contact and insisted on leaving messages on my voicemail. I lost trust because he didn’t respect my wish for space. The message I got was,

“You SHOULDN’T need space. I know better than you do what you need. My needs are more important than yours. You’re opinions and wishes are unimportant and wrong.”

Of course, that is not what he meant. But by calling me when I told him NOT to showed me that he cared more about what he needed than what I needed.

So, your best move is to wait and heal. There is one law of attraction exercise you can do to mend things quickly. I can’t promise you WHEN it will happen, only that it WILL. Your willingness and diligence in doing this exercise authentically will show up in your results.

Here’s the exercise. Because he has asked for non-contact, you are not permitted to call, email, snail mail your ex unless he explicitedly allows it. I suppose if he told you not to call him, you could use a loop hole and write him a letter. But only you know what he TRULY meant. Likely, he meant NO contact whatsoever, so don’t manipulate the situation just because you can.

Everything is Energy. You can still communicate to him…even one-sided. Here’s what you do: every day for at least 30 days straight, write your ex a virtual letter. In this letter, you will do your best to communicate your love, respect and understanding to your ex. You’ll tell him exactly what you love about him and why you miss him. You can even explain what “happened” as if he were standing there listening to you. You can ask for forgiveness from him.

You can be as creative as you want to be. It is important that the Energy of the letter be one of love and understanding, not one of neediness or accusations.

You see, since everything is energy, even if you don’t literally send the letter to your ex, he will RECEIVE it energetically. Yes! He will actually receive the messages you write in vibrational form. He will not know you are communicating to him consciously, but unconsciously the messages will enter his energy field. His unconscious will filter and let in whatever messages most resonate.

If YOU feel the love when you write the letter, he will FEEL it too. That’s the beauty of this exercise. I can’t tell you how many times this simple exercise has created peace where there was conflict. Are you willing to take this action? Is your relationship important enough to do it?

This is my challenge to you. Let me know after 30 days how things are going for you.


Dr. Karen Kan

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